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I feel like before I really get over him I need to try to get him back one more time. I need to know i gave it EVERYTHING i had in me. I know that i can not force him to want to be with me but I also know that I just can not accept that it is over. I have been going NC and it has just not been working for me. I need to try just one more time, I just have no idea how...

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I feel like before I really get over him I need to try to get him back one more time. I need to know i gave it EVERYTHING i had in me. I know that i can not force him to want to be with me but I also know that I just can not accept that it is over. I have been going NC and it has just not been working for me. I need to try just one more time, I just have no idea how...

 

Sorry you're still going through this Sis, but there is NOTHING you can do. You already gave it your effort and it's about how HE feels about YOU not about how YOU feel about HIM or what YOU do. So. When exactly will your EVERYTHING be enough for you to finally accept that it is over and done? 3 more "everythings"? 10? 50? I don't think you will find an end with this thinking.

 

Now let's get onto the other fact: when someone does not want to be with you, they do not want to be with you. I understand it's hard to accept. That's your bruised ego talking. You just can't believe he would not want to be with YOU. It's nothing to take personally or as an insult. Some people are just looking for a different type, fit, look or personality.

 

Well NC is not working for you because you are doing NC with the idea that he is going to miraculously realize he can't live without you, do a turn around, get back with you and everything will be wonderful. Sorry, I hate to say it, but it's not going to happen. NC is for YOU to MOVE ON, not to use as a strategy to get your Ex back. That's why you're disappointed with NC.

 

I think it's time that you give "one" try to counseling and give that your EVERYTHING. Spend all your time and energy on improving yourself for you and moving forward.

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