jimraynor Posted October 23, 2010 Posted October 23, 2010 I met her online which isnt the best start to anything but she was into me at first. I thought she was crazy and didnt talk to her for awhile, then decided to add her as a friend again after avoiding her just to be friends. But then as i talked to her on the messenger and on webcam i started to really get along. Ive been talking to her for a few months and we are both happy and enjoy talking about anything. Its the first girl ive really havent been nervous talking to and i feel very comfortable. She lives in europe while i live in california. I was going to europe the following summer to visit my family and she wanted to meet up. She was thinking of starting a relationship with me and i thought about it and really like her. My parents assume she is after me to get a green card and use me. I know by experience that my parents are most likely right but as a 21 year old ive had many different encounters and feel like I should at least possibly give her a chance. Now for her bad attributes: broken family and she lived with her grandparents most of her youth, she doesnt go to college in europe. She tells me she isnt going to ever use me and she wouldnt want something serious unless she really knew she liked the person. But many girls have said that to me so i dont know if i really should believe her and it is a big risk to get attached to someone far away who i cant tell is really the great person i talk to online. It would be great if older people with experience could give me a response. Ive been hurt many times and it wont be bad if i find out shes been lying and playing me but i just thought maybe its better to give this a chance rather than regret not having her in my future.
Truthseeker-John Posted October 25, 2010 Posted October 25, 2010 I think you answered your own questions. Try to see her in person then you will know.
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