DanielH Posted October 23, 2010 Posted October 23, 2010 When I am interested and actively trying to go out with someone I get so obsessed. Not outwardly but in my mind and it starts to dictate my happiness as I worry or get disappointed. This has happened three times in the last year and I can't stand it anymore. How do others prevent this from happening? Break all interaction if that sort of things starts?
dreamingoftigers Posted October 23, 2010 Posted October 23, 2010 It used to happen to me when I was younger. But I also had a whole bunch more emotional issues. Maybe check into seeing if you have any other possible emotional issues. Were you abused or abandoned? I had had both in my history but I thought I had come out fine when really I had not and it caused me problems later. Not trying to sound crazy here just thinking that most emotionally healthy people probably don't get too emotionally drawn in.
Author DanielH Posted October 23, 2010 Author Posted October 23, 2010 Well last week my psychologist said to me that I no longer needed to see him. At least not until I thought I needed to. I was never abused or abandoned. But there are things in my family that may have effected me. My two siblings have cystic fibrosis and hat is a big part of our life. I struggle to make the connection though. Unless (1) I was paid less attention to as a child or (2) my parents overcompensated and gave me so much attention that I feel I need it from someone I want to be close to. I don't know though....
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