Gt.ooh Posted October 22, 2010 Posted October 22, 2010 By the day I'm beginning to think she's with her ex...the one she got a restraining order on and wanted to move away from in the first place. In order to gt school. She wanted to get away from this guy...I come along like 4 months after she signs up for school and about 1-2 months (i don't remember now) after she broke it off with him. So he threatned me, tried to show up at her house countless times, and I had enough and she agreed to get a restraining order...she left for school I couldn't be apart, so I moved to be with her... 2 weeks prior to break up the ex made contact through email, his brother passed away..I wasn't mad nor jealous I mean his brother died... non-the-less he made contact again.. its becoming clear now. A short 2 weeks later she's distant, one word answers doesn't want to do anything. Then the "break" came along and I moved back to BC.... I found what I'm pretty damn sure is her ex's facebook, can't see anything...BUT there's picture of Niagara falls for the profile picture and we lived only an hour and 20 mins away from there... Am I overthinking guys or does this seem quite legit? IF it is I'm heading up to her parents place up country to get my parents off the lease they signed for us to get into the new condo..I won't take any action till it's confirmed..
tbird509 Posted October 22, 2010 Posted October 22, 2010 i learned the hard way before,when a girl cant move on from her ex,its time for you to move on to the next
Author Gt.ooh Posted October 22, 2010 Author Posted October 22, 2010 Yea I understand that. I just don't know. Nothing is confirmed and I'm going out on a limb so to speak. She was over him as far as I knew.. I mean she wanted to move away from the guy.. Stranger things have happened forsure, I don't want to believe this..however I'm not ruling it out and just want some un-biased opinions.. There's lots of guys on here that could give me some more insight.
Trovador Posted October 23, 2010 Posted October 23, 2010 She broke up with you, isn't she free to hook up with whoever she deems right? What's the difference if she keeps single, date some other guy or date her ex? I mean, in order to avoid taking action on the condo thingie, she must not date her ex? Shouldn't you do it whatever the case?
Author Gt.ooh Posted October 23, 2010 Author Posted October 23, 2010 True, its just frustrating that she went through the trouble to move away...I moved there and got used (thats what it feels like now), and she possibly ends up with the ex. I can't really care, or I'll lose my marbles..just wish if it's the case she would show some respect for all I've done and just outright tell me.. piece of mind would be nice. AND I can't confirm it, I could be just spinning the internal wheels in my head part of the emotional spiral. I could even have the wrong guys facebook.. who knows. Someone slap me out of it.
Don Ho Posted October 23, 2010 Posted October 23, 2010 Bro, you need to stop obsessing. If it's not one aspect of her and your relationship, it's another. You're spending way, way too much time thinking and analyzing. I agree, I'm not sure what taking your parents off the lease for the condo really has to do with her and/or her dating her Ex or anyone. You're not "waiting" for her to come back are you? It would be wise to get your parents off the lease regardless.
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