Lucky555 Posted October 22, 2010 Posted October 22, 2010 I am trying to get over bitterness I feel from my last relationship. I know its unhealthy for me and i want to be completely free for a new great guy. I dont want to have baggage in my life or sulking over a past relationship. My ex: This guy had excuses for everything, made sure to tell me he wanted a relationship only to find out he wanted to use me in the end. I didn't put out till I knew for sure that he wanted me in his life. However, actions speak louder than words..otherwise he was manipulative with words and had no actions! After 3 years of on and off i figured the whole time it was because i was in school, even though i had summers off he always strayed away then came back with an excuse...Enough is enough. I just feel like this is the best thing so i don't get sucked back into seeing him again. I tried to be his friend before and i ended up taking him back...but he never committed himself fully. Usually its the 17th day of every month that he contacts me in some form. So this is a huge deal for me because I don't want to hear from him again. Love is supposed to feel good not having issues with someone treating you like sh**. My mind is getting clearer and once i have more things together in my life I will be out dating and having fun for once. To be honest i never had True fun with this ex. We never did anything and I wasn't swept off my feet. I think i kept seeing him because he was always talking to me and making me laugh. However, i have found out he has lied a lot...oh well. Live is all i want to do! I'm happy to have the strength to keep away from him. If he contacts me in an email today Its going straight to the trash. He doesn't deserve an ounce of my energy. I can't believe he lied about wanting a relationship when i told him want i was looking for and he claimed to be wanting the same. He lied. Seriously what happened to people being honest about what they want. Why lie? We used to be friends and I have known him for 3 years. Its not right. If he was a real good man he wouldn't have been in a relationship with me in the first place. Glad im not spending more time with a man who sucks and is a liar. oh yes and his ex is still around...I bet shes happy now that he and i are not together. As for him...he never really cared. SO lets see if he doesn't contact me!! DUN DUN DUN if he does i will post here and I will say I dumped his email in the trash because thats what he is!
Trovador Posted October 23, 2010 Posted October 23, 2010 So, what happened? Did he emailed you? Were you able to throw the message? Anyway, you are worrying to much about him... time and distance should provide you with a healthy perspective on what you must do, that is get the hell away from him...
Don Ho Posted October 23, 2010 Posted October 23, 2010 Good for you! You're one step closer to being over him and moving on with your life.
Am4Real Posted October 23, 2010 Posted October 23, 2010 oh yes and his ex is still around...I bet shes happy now that he and i are not together. The EX is still around is she? Well I think you now understand where his head might really be and why he is in and out of being straight with you.... Continue to move away and do not look back...and STOP COUNTING DAYS OF THE MONTH, please. Simply continue to heal and keep busy. Once you accomplish the above I'm sure new and greater opportunities will surface -- they always do!! Best wishes, Am4Real
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