bestrong Posted October 22, 2010 Posted October 22, 2010 Guys, I really want to send my ex this letter but I don't know if I should. I need advice!! I think she won't know that I am still in love with her cause I didn't mention it, but I trust you guys more than I trust myself when it comes to stuff like that. Dear EDC, Remember how I wanted to remain friends and went back to the time when we could talk non-stop online? I don't think I want it that way anymore. I need time to heal. It's going to be a long process but it is something I need to do. I was happy to see your email but it made me upset at the same time. Why would you asked how have I been when it's clear to you that I am still trying to move on? I guess I will never know why! My response might seemed cold ( I replied " hi. i have been doing fine" when she asked "hi bestrong, how have you been?") and I have been thinking about it over and over again if it's going to make you think that I am mad at you. I am not, even though I have every right to. I still believe you were trying to make me let go so I don't have to go through such a long period of pain. I understand but I don't agree with the way you did it. Anyway, you were right. We can't be friends at the moment so please don't ask me how I have been doing through email. It is just going to ruin my progress of moving on. I do want to talk to you, but we are not on the same page and it's just going to hurt either of us or maybe the person you are dating. I need time to heal, to look at my flaws and be a better person whom I always wanted to be. I hope we will talk again when the time is right, but take care of yourself for the time being. Love always, Bestrong
Nkognito Posted October 22, 2010 Posted October 22, 2010 Fools wisdom - http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t56954/ No Contact Guide - http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t81399/ ^ Follow those to the T!!! I know it will suck, its going to be hard but any contact you give her will make you less powerful in her eyes.
rebeccajones Posted October 22, 2010 Posted October 22, 2010 I don't think she deserves that letter or such an elaborate explanation. You need to worry about yourself.
strangeways Posted October 22, 2010 Posted October 22, 2010 Do not send that email. It serves no purpose at all. You don't owe her any explanations. No one is going to advise you to send it, that should tell you something.
Author bestrong Posted October 24, 2010 Author Posted October 24, 2010 Fools wisdom - http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t56954/ No Contact Guide - http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t81399/ ^ Follow those to the T!!! I know it will suck, its going to be hard but any contact you give her will make you less powerful in her eyes. thanks for the links. they surely help me and I absolutely don't want her to think I am less powerful. I gave her my dignity and I don't want to lose anymore of it
Author bestrong Posted October 24, 2010 Author Posted October 24, 2010 I don't think she deserves that letter or such an elaborate explanation. You need to worry about yourself. You are right, rebeccajones. I shouldn't break NC again, but it's hard! the moment I saw her name in my inbox, I knew my life is *******!
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