mridul_chajilee Posted October 22, 2010 Posted October 22, 2010 some important causes of Breakup put forwarded by Dr.K.Bateman,Amber university.These are as follows- 1.Ineffective communication patterns(insufficient talk about significant things). 2.Sexual incompatibilities. 3.Anxiety over making and/or maintaining a long term commitment. 4.Financial difficulties. 5.Job stress. 6.Fewer shared activities. 7.Reduced exchange of affection. 8.Infidelity(Greater than 50% of men are unfaithful,the percentage of women is also increasing,an affair is really an escape). 9.Lack of sensitivity or indifference to a partner's feelings or wishes. 10.Conflicts over power and control. 11.Undeveloped problem solving skills (the art of compromise). 12.Conflicts over money,independence,in-laws or children. 13.Physical and/or emotional abuse. 14.An inability to respond positevely to changing role demands,such as the return to work by one partner or birth of a child. 15.Unexplored differences in expectations.
Don Ho Posted October 22, 2010 Posted October 22, 2010 Leave it to a Shrink to give out that list. Zzzzzzzzzzzzz.
youngskywalker Posted October 22, 2010 Posted October 22, 2010 half of those could be summed up in one word...... selfishness
Author mridul_chajilee Posted October 22, 2010 Author Posted October 22, 2010 No i'm not married and these are not my views just got in other site and sharing here.i'm still alone.Love only chajilee.thanks.
Don Ho Posted October 22, 2010 Posted October 22, 2010 Funny how therapists have "lists" like this and interesting how they make it so "intellectual". How bout this list: 1. You were a PUSSY. 2. You smothered them. 3. You made them the center of your life instead of yourself. 4. You were jealous and insecure. 5. You acted psychotic and like a stalker. 6. You don't know how to be a continuing challenge. 7. You gave into their every request. 8. You had no outside life, hobbies or friends. 9. You were boring and predictable. 10. You were a PITA (pain in the a$$). How did I do??
Trovador Posted October 22, 2010 Posted October 22, 2010 good, man, good... 11. You were her girlfriend 12. You are a crybaby 13. You tried to buy her buying her gifts 14. You were always available 15. You put up with all her **** 16. You called/texted back immediately
Don Ho Posted October 22, 2010 Posted October 22, 2010 . Yep! You get it Trov! #11. Now THAT's some funny sh$$t!!
Lucky555 Posted October 22, 2010 Posted October 22, 2010 more 1. lives with parents 2. is not over ex 3. selfish 4. likes other guys/or girls (gay/lesbian) 5. Mental health disorder 6. Disability The list can go on.
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