colliejoanie Posted October 22, 2010 Posted October 22, 2010 I've been seeing a great guy for five weeks now. He was sick this entire past week with the flu. The last time we spent together was Sunday night and it was amazing as usual. Tomorrow is Friday......we have absolutely no plans for the weekend. Do I assume we'll be together this weekend? Do I ask him? Do I make other plans?
xpaperxcutx Posted October 22, 2010 Posted October 22, 2010 Assumption is killer! Make plans. If he's busy, go out with your girlfriends.
Art_Critic Posted October 22, 2010 Posted October 22, 2010 Do I ask him? You have been seeing him for over a month.. while not forever it is long enough that you need to not play games... Ask him.. just mention that you have the weekend free and would like to so something.. is he up for anything..
FructoseGrande Posted October 22, 2010 Posted October 22, 2010 Depends on how straight up you can talk with him, because "flu" can mean repeated diarrhea over several days. This is not something that is easy to talk about, no guy is going to want to admit that he can't go out with you or is afraid to go out because he might sh*t himself in the middle of the restaurant before he can run to the toilet. Imagine if you have a very very very heavy period that lasts esp. long, like several days, with severe cramping. Would you necessarily feel like going out and partying?
carhill Posted October 22, 2010 Posted October 22, 2010 Well if you're west coast call him right now and see how he's doing. East coast, call him tomorrow. 'So how's the toilet hugging coming along? Nice porcelain, eh? Hey, I was thinking of you and I know how much the flu sucks. How ya doing?' Take it from there. Do *not* text him. Thanks After you have gauged his condition, *then* decide how to proceed. He may have suggestions or want to just collapse all weekend. Either way, you'll have an answer. Enjoy. Life is brief
shayan Posted October 22, 2010 Posted October 22, 2010 you're overthinking things if he is the right one for you, then you don't have to worry about ever calling him, do it if you want to and don't be afraid. I feel like the fear you have of calling is unessecary.
sugarmomma Posted October 22, 2010 Posted October 22, 2010 Well if you're west coast call him right now and see how he's doing. East coast, call him tomorrow. 'So how's the toilet hugging coming along? Nice porcelain, eh? Hey, I was thinking of you and I know how much the flu sucks. How ya doing?' Take it from there. Do *not* text him. Thanks After you have gauged his condition, *then* decide how to proceed. He may have suggestions or want to just collapse all weekend. Either way, you'll have an answer. Enjoy. Life is brief (hitting the like button I wish LS had)
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