sweetstuff Posted October 22, 2010 Posted October 22, 2010 Ok, now i've been reading a lot of post and some of you are brutal which is good, so here is my story. I use to date this guy 4 years ago, he dumped me and went back with an old girlfriend. I was broken hearted. During that 4 year period, he was trying to get in contact with me but I refused. So, last Christmas, 2009. I still had his number in my phone, i still cared for him and I decided to send him a text, of "Merry Christmas" so he got it called me like a billion times and we talked for a bit but I was out of town. I was however, dating someone that wasnt' given me the attention I needed thats why I longed for my ex. So, I got back to town and me and my ex talked and then he wanted to go on a date and I told him I was dating someone. So he backed off. So suddenly he calls me like 3 months later, when me and the guy i was dating broke up and he was like maybe we have another chance. I said maybe, we talked on the phone then we went on a date and its was like fireworks, like we diddn't skip a beat. Things were going well, we went to a party and things were nice, he got real drunk was dancing with some girl and I was pissed, i pushed him left the party and he came and found me and said she's no one. Then we left i was pissed. So, i spent the night at his place, left early because i ddint' want to be around him. so after that i was wondering if he was a good person for me. So we talked chilled but i felt like we should break up because he also had some personal issues i didnt want to be a part of. So i told him we should break up, because he has some personal issues that would be more than i wanted to handle. he was hurt and i said we should be friends. after that he called me 3 days later. he said did i miss him, i said yes. and we talked for a while. then i said i wanted to see him, we chilled then i told him i wanted him back. we talked for a while and he felt we should just be friends because we moved to fast and we just need to chill. So off and on we talked, he began to be cold toward me and even had some girl answer his phone, and she said she was his wife, then he called like a few hours later apologizing for that girl answering. so we talked then after that. i felt desperate and did the whole, "ill do better" crap which did not move him. so i told him im gonna give u space. So im stuck at the space, part. what should i do you guys?
Don Ho Posted October 23, 2010 Posted October 23, 2010 Um. Bail out for good and find a guy that's less drama? Oh and grow up a little bit and have some self confidence. So he danced with a girl at a party. He wasn't making out with her.
Author sweetstuff Posted October 29, 2010 Author Posted October 29, 2010 you are absolutely right, i was immature in my response. thank you.
coltsfan1 Posted October 29, 2010 Posted October 29, 2010 sweetstuff-you all didn't work last time for a reason and now 4 YEARS later you miss him, and ONLY because your current boyfriend isn't showing you the kind of attention you want?!! Seems sketchy to me, you should leave both the guys alone!! But I agree if I was at a party with a date I would never dance with another woman, that is just direspectful to the person you are with!!
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