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I have this crush on a good friend of mine that I've known for a year. We always click. Whether it's messaging or hanging out in person or having a real conversation, it's always worth the time spent. So, he's leaving for the air force, and visited me at church a day before he left. He's such an awesome guy, and he just got a long with everyone he met. I've brought other people there before, and it was just really nice of him to try to joke, and talk with people that I spend a lot of time with. It makes it that much easier, and enjoyable. I guess that's what set me over the top, was finally someone connects (or at least tried, or not tried and succeeded anyway) with some close friends of mine.

 

The thing is he's already left, he gets no contact with anyone for 6 months, and just one phone call and that's for his mom. He said he will post pics and updates on facebook to keep in touch with everyone. That would be once in a while, but less than 6 months. Should I tell him how I feel? I know we're both not really "looking" for anything right now. We have really full schedules and goals that fill up our time, but I've never told anyone that before, and I don't know if I want to let the opportunity pass...so I was going to send him a message at least to get it out there. He IS away though, so Im not even sure if it's "worth" telling. He's busy, and occupied, and has tons of important priorities. I'm like "booked" for the rest of the year with things that have to be done esp with the holidays, so I'm just not so sure what to do with these feelings...

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in life we only regret the things we don't do, if he gets away and you don't get another chance well then... I would tell him.

 

 

'nuff said.

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I say go for it. What do you have to lose?

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