Yvette_Sveden Posted October 21, 2010 Posted October 21, 2010 How would you react if you were to find out that your partner had a lover of the same sex before meeting you? Yvette from Sweden
Feelin Frisky Posted October 21, 2010 Posted October 21, 2010 I'd be lying if I said it didn't concern me. That's a real identity determinant which one must take as a grand new question mark. Maybe others don't see it as a big whoop or say it's no biggie. But if we're talking seriousness and love, this changes the whole equation to me as o whom it really is that I love and whether it is now in my best interest to be purposefully ignorant. I'm not saying it's an automatic deal breaker, it is just definitely a game changer.
OpenBook Posted October 21, 2010 Posted October 21, 2010 My reaction would be exactly the same as Feelin Frisky's. I would be... spooked.
Author Yvette_Sveden Posted November 2, 2010 Author Posted November 2, 2010 It would bother me, too. It'll make me think that he would do it again, whether it's by cheating on me or after our relationship is over.
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