singlelife Posted October 21, 2010 Posted October 21, 2010 It never fails. I treated another girl like dirt. Actually she made me mad and I cussed her out. Not an ongoing thing. Now I am getting hit on by more girls at the store that I did it at. Women are funny. Women....do you like getting cussed? Does it make you horny?
Sabali Posted October 21, 2010 Posted October 21, 2010 Yeah but in the end, they will despise you. Think in the long run when it comes to your reputation. Many don't understand this whole "bad boy" concept and get confused.
sartrelazyeye Posted October 21, 2010 Posted October 21, 2010 It never fails. I treated another girl like dirt. Actually she made me mad and I cussed her out. Not an ongoing thing. Now I am getting hit on by more girls at the store that I did it at. Women are funny. Women....do you like getting cussed? Does it make you horny? uh, NO. I may **** a bad boy, but I'll never date one. My boyfriend knows how to do it. He's a bad boy during sex (when I went it, which is most often), but such a sweetheart in every other way.
USMCHokie Posted October 21, 2010 Posted October 21, 2010 People that like getting treated like dirt are exactly that...dirt...
AverageJoe Posted October 21, 2010 Posted October 21, 2010 People that like getting treated like dirt are exactly that...dirt... I dont agree with that at all. I happen to know a few girls that simply want to have fun without the expectation of falling in love. I also know that many women do in fact want to **** the bad boy but not marry them, just as the previous poster pointed out. Which is exactly what a bad boy wants. Many women are attention whores and most of us know this. However, no one ever points out they also like the negative attention. Good, bad, whatever, they love attention. I dont know if that constitutes dirt. You are painting with a rather large brush there my friend.
USMCHokie Posted October 21, 2010 Posted October 21, 2010 I dont agree with that at all. I happen to know a few girls that simply want to have fun without the expectation of falling in love. I also know that many women do in fact want to **** the bad boy but not marry them, just as the previous poster pointed out. Which is exactly what a bad boy wants. Many women are attention whores and most of us know this. However, no one ever points out they also like the negative attention. Good, bad, whatever, they love attention. I dont know if that constitutes dirt. You are painting with a rather large brush there my friend. Simply having fun is a little different from thriving on being treated poorly. Some people (both male and female) have a subconscious need for it and don't feel fulfilled in relationships with genuinely caring partners. So yes, for me personally, I want nothing to do with that...and I am comfortable rocking the biggest brush I can find...
somedude81 Posted October 21, 2010 Posted October 21, 2010 uh, NO. I may **** a bad boy, but I'll never date one. Uh, you do know that what you just said encourages guys to be bad boys. Be the nice guy who gets nothing, or be a bad boy and girls will **** you.
Surrealist Posted October 21, 2010 Posted October 21, 2010 Having fun verses being a glutton for poor treatment are two entirely different dynamics.
Sabali Posted October 21, 2010 Posted October 21, 2010 It's all sexually related. Some women are just sexually attracted to "bad boys." I don't think there is any thing wrong with that and I don't judge them for it. It is just something that floats their boats. As long as I get mine... I think sluts can be very sexy but would I marry one? No. Would I ***k the living daylights out of them? Yes.
AverageJoe Posted October 21, 2010 Posted October 21, 2010 Simply having fun is a little different from thriving on being treated poorly. Some people (both male and female) have a subconscious need for it and don't feel fulfilled in relationships with genuinely caring partners. So yes, for me personally, I want nothing to do with that...and I am comfortable rocking the biggest brush I can find... No one said anything about being treated poorly, abuse, thriving on it or any of the above. You did.
USMCHokie Posted October 21, 2010 Posted October 21, 2010 It never fails. I treated another girl like dirt. Actually she made me mad and I cussed her out. Not an ongoing thing. Now I am getting hit on by more girls at the store that I did it at. Women are funny. Women....do you like getting cussed? Does it make you horny? No one said anything about being treated poorly, abuse, thriving on it or any of the above. You did. Refer to above.
sartrelazyeye Posted October 21, 2010 Posted October 21, 2010 Uh, you do know that what you just said encourages guys to be bad boys. Be the nice guy who gets nothing, or be a bad boy and girls will **** you. No, I **** and date nice guys. Did you not see what I wrote about my boyfriend?
USMCHokie Posted October 21, 2010 Posted October 21, 2010 No, I **** and date nice guys. Did you not see what I wrote about my boyfriend? You have to be careful when you toss around the word "nice" on LS...some take it to mean a genuinely good guy, while others (primarily men) interpret it as the stereotypical "nice" guy who supposedly finishes last...
Mattock5656 Posted October 21, 2010 Posted October 21, 2010 uh, NO. I may **** a bad boy, but I'll never date one. My boyfriend knows how to do it. He's a bad boy during sex (when I went it, which is most often), but such a sweetheart in every other way. It's funny, there is this female that I talk to with in one of my classes in the University. Usually, I catch her before class and we usually talk about the class or random stuff...And every SINGLE time I talk to her she manages to bring her boyfriend into the conversation. I could be talking red Asian monkeys that I saw in the zoo, and she can manage to talk about her boyfriend in the conversation. (or bring it in somehow) Anyways, somehow we got to talking about Nice/bad guys and such. And she was like, "Ya, my boyfriend is such a wonderful sweet guy, and she said that, he told her that he treats women like **** etc etc....but she said, Although he is such a sweet guy... and shes like, he even dresses like a preppy douche... Lol and I was thinking in my head.. What the hell? You are purely contradicting yourself, and it simply enjoy the challenge, him not giving a **** mentality. Of course, not all women are not like this, and just from what you wrote... I seriously get the vibe that you enjoy bad boy treatment and you just don't want to admit it. Maybe, you should use the term "assertive in bed" rather than hes a "bad boy" in bed. Why can't men who treat women with respect be good in bed? Because there are men who are certainly are. I agree, with USMCHokie....
USMCHokie Posted October 21, 2010 Posted October 21, 2010 Of course, not all women are not like this, and just from what you wrote... I seriously get the vibe that you enjoy bad boy treatment and you just don't want to admit it. Maybe, you should use the term "assertive in bed" rather than hes a "bad boy" in bed. Why can't men who treat women with respect be good in bed? Because there are men who are certainly are. This is a great point...it's interesting how women associate "badness" with sexual prowess...perhaps it's a preconceived notion that "bad boys" sleep around, so they must be dynamite in the sack...?
Mutant Debutante Posted October 21, 2010 Posted October 21, 2010 No, regular chicks who don't have major issues aren't into getting cussed out in public, Mr. Troll.
sartrelazyeye Posted October 21, 2010 Posted October 21, 2010 It's funny, there is this female that I talk to with in one of my classes in the University. Usually, I catch her before class and we usually talk about the class or random stuff...And every SINGLE time I talk to her she manages to bring her boyfriend into the conversation. I could be talking red Asian monkeys that I saw in the zoo, and she can manage to talk about her boyfriend in the conversation. (or bring it in somehow) Anyways, somehow we got to talking about Nice/bad guys and such. And she was like, "Ya, my boyfriend is such a wonderful sweet guy, and she said that, he told her that he treats women like **** etc etc....but she said, Although he is such a sweet guy... and shes like, he even dresses like a preppy douche... Lol and I was thinking in my head.. What the hell? You are purely contradicting yourself, and it simply enjoy the challenge, him not giving a **** mentality. Of course, not all women are not like this, and just from what you wrote... I seriously get the vibe that you enjoy bad boy treatment and you just don't want to admit it. Maybe, you should use the term "assertive in bed" rather than hes a "bad boy" in bed. Why can't men who treat women with respect be good in bed? Because there are men who are certainly are. I agree, with USMCHokie.... all right, all right...i'll try to clarify. I love all men (unless he is total dick), but I only date kind, caring guys. However, I have a serious submissive streak in regards to sex. I'm sort of dominant in relationships, but love being dominated in bed. That has more to do with my own psychological issues, so perhaps I wouldn't have brought it up in this thread (which is a lot more general).
Sabali Posted October 21, 2010 Posted October 21, 2010 all right, all right...i'll try to clarify. I love all men (unless he is total dick), but I only date kind, caring guys. However, I have a serious submissive streak in regards to sex. I'm sort of dominant in relationships, but love being dominated in bed. That has more to do with my own psychological issues, so perhaps I wouldn't have brought it up in this thread (which is a lot more general). No need to back pedal. if you like sexing bad boys you have your right to do so. What sexually attracts us is what sexually attracts us. As long as you are not impinging on anyone else health and happiness. You can go out and do a whole outlaw biker gang and I'll still respect you as long as you are generally cool.
Titania22 Posted October 21, 2010 Posted October 21, 2010 And she was like, "Ya, my boyfriend is such a wonderful sweet guy, and she said that, he told her that he treats women like **** etc etc....but she said, Although he is such a sweet guy... and shes like, he even dresses like a preppy douche... Lol and I was thinking in my head.. What the hell? You are purely contradicting yourself, and it simply enjoy the challenge, him not giving a **** mentality. Of course, not all women are not like this, and just from what you wrote... I seriously get the vibe that you enjoy bad boy treatment and you just don't want to admit it. Maybe, you should use the term "assertive in bed" rather than hes a "bad boy" in bed. Why can't men who treat women with respect be good in bed? Because there are men who are certainly are. I agree, with USMCHokie.... Hmmm, this has got me thinking, maybe it is that we like falling for illusion. I know I am not into 'the obvious bad boy', and would hence saying I like 'nice guys'. But perhaps the truth isn't so black and white. Maybe I like 'bad boys who appear as nice guys or even viceversa'. I am not sure. (Where does confidence, friendliness, flirtatous and a dark sense of humour fit into this.) Also in response to the original post, I think some people subconsciously want to be abused and they attact that sort of person. The rest of us don't.
Knittress Posted October 21, 2010 Posted October 21, 2010 I'm really glad the male population isn't divided into pansies vs. dicks. It isn't, guys. Really. You know that saying, "A lady in the streets but a freak in the sheets?" They need to make a guy version of that line. That could be what most women want - at least I do.
SteveC80 Posted October 21, 2010 Posted October 21, 2010 It's funny, there is this female that I talk to with in one of my classes in the University. Usually, I catch her before class and we usually talk about the class or random stuff...And every SINGLE time I talk to her she manages to bring her boyfriend into the conversation. I could be talking red Asian monkeys that I saw in the zoo, and she can manage to talk about her boyfriend in the conversation. (or bring it in somehow) Anyways, somehow we got to talking about Nice/bad guys and such. And she was like, "Ya, my boyfriend is such a wonderful sweet guy, and she said that, he told her that he treats women like **** etc etc....but she said, Although he is such a sweet guy... and shes like, he even dresses like a preppy douche... Lol and I was thinking in my head.. What the hell? You are purely contradicting yourself, and it simply enjoy the challenge, him not giving a **** mentality. Of course, not all women are not like this, and just from what you wrote... I seriously get the vibe that you enjoy bad boy treatment and you just don't want to admit it. Maybe, you should use the term "assertive in bed" rather than hes a "bad boy" in bed. Why can't men who treat women with respect be good in bed? Because there are men who are certainly are. I agree, with USMCHokie.... Women deep down want to be domianted especially in the bedroom,ive dated women who want to be role playing raped women liek to be helpless and submissive In general to a point also,the more theyre run by a a man telling em what to do the more they feel feminine at their core Were wired differently sweet kind and caring are female traits that are postive and turn Men on,those same traits dont turn women on Power dominance and strength does
Knittress Posted October 21, 2010 Posted October 21, 2010 Women deep down want to be domianted especially in the bedroom,ive dated women who want to be role playing raped women liek to be helpless and submissive In general to a point also,the more theyre run by a a man telling em what to do the more they feel feminine at their core Were wired differently sweet kind and caring are female traits that are postive and turn Men on,those same traits dont turn women on Power dominance and strength does o.O And I actually agree with you. But there is a vast difference between someone who uses these qualities to be protective and in-charge vs. someone who's being abrasive or an abuser.
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