worlybear Posted October 20, 2010 Posted October 20, 2010 I nominate my STBXH as the meanest S*** in the World. Daughter is struggling at Uni (due to a monumental cock-up in the grant-their fault.) She has got a coffee shop job but needs money for course books etc. The grant will take 4 weeks to get to her account. I spent the little money I had ,setting her up with basics ,so last nite broke NC , emailed STBXH and told him she was struggling. He replied he would help. Today, daughter informs me that he has told her she can have her £50 xmas money early !!! What an absolute s***! (He is earning a decent salary and we have always helped kids a little. Sent him a polite email saying I'm sure she must have mis-understood as nobody is that mean.(LOL) He has contributed nothing towards helping her go to Uni and ,as you may remember, thought he would walk away from 9 yr old too. Anyway another email arrived full of bluster and bad temper.....watch this space. I'm quite enjoying sending polite,measured,reasonable responses.
willowthewisp Posted October 23, 2010 Posted October 23, 2010 Just goes to show he has no conscience even with regards to his own children. Sounds like you're better off without him to me.
tinktronik Posted October 23, 2010 Posted October 23, 2010 I nominate my STBXH as the meanest S*** in the World. Daughter is struggling at Uni (due to a monumental cock-up in the grant-their fault.) She has got a coffee shop job but needs money for course books etc. The grant will take 4 weeks to get to her account. I spent the little money I had ,setting her up with basics ,so last nite broke NC , emailed STBXH and told him she was struggling. He replied he would help. Today, daughter informs me that he has told her she can have her £50 xmas money early !!! What an absolute s***! (He is earning a decent salary and we have always helped kids a little. Sent him a polite email saying I'm sure she must have mis-understood as nobody is that mean.(LOL) He has contributed nothing towards helping her go to Uni and ,as you may remember, thought he would walk away from 9 yr old too. Anyway another email arrived full of bluster and bad temper.....watch this space. I'm quite enjoying sending polite,measured,reasonable responses. Your daughter is in Uni. Let her father and her work out their own relationship. Leave him alone, stop calling or emailing on your daughter's behalf and let them manage their own relationship. Stay out of it.
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