Leandro Posted October 20, 2010 Posted October 20, 2010 It was meant to just be friendly :/ I replied "Yeah it's a good film Night x" and she just said "Yeah" Shall I reply with whats up? x Just leave her alone for right now.
Author Polar Posted October 20, 2010 Author Posted October 20, 2010 If I list some facts can you help me work it out? 1) I cheated on her...forcing her to end the relationship. 2) I sent her roses and braclets trying to get her back. 3) I begged, pleaded etc... 4) I started contacting her less and going out more... 4) She initiates NC after asking if I was kissing other people...I said no because I haven't. 5) She phones me crying saying she isn't happy with her new boyfriend and that he won't replace me. 6) She leaves me cute messages on formspring saying she will always love me etc... 7) She invites me to her birthday party...I say I don't know yet. 8) Her sister adds me on facebook; I decline.
Leandro Posted October 20, 2010 Posted October 20, 2010 If I list some facts can you help me work it out? 1) I cheated on her...forcing her to end the relationship. 2) I sent her roses and braclets trying to get her back. 3) I begged, pleaded etc... 4) I started contacting her less and going out more... 4) She initiates NC after asking if I was kissing other people...I said no because I haven't. 5) She phones me crying saying she isn't happy with her new boyfriend and that he won't replace me. 6) She leaves me cute messages on formspring saying she will always love me etc... 7) She invites me to her birthday party...I say I don't know yet. 8) Her sister adds me on facebook; I decline. Hmmmm. Well her trust for you is either gone or very low. If she isn't happy with her new boyfriend than why is she still with him? Remember that actions speak louder than words.
Author Polar Posted October 20, 2010 Author Posted October 20, 2010 I have no idea what is going on in her head :|
ShannonMI Posted October 20, 2010 Posted October 20, 2010 Hmmmm. Well her trust for you is either gone or very low. If she isn't happy with her new boyfriend than why is she still with him? Remember that actions speak louder than words. Her bf is some kid she met over the internet. Some Xbox thing. She's never met him. I've read Polar's other thread about this relationship. They are high school kids.
Author Polar Posted October 20, 2010 Author Posted October 20, 2010 I just got a message on formspring saying "You're too amazing" after we finished talking, do you guys think it's a coincidence? After all she seemed pretty cold in the messages...
Leandro Posted October 20, 2010 Posted October 20, 2010 Her bf is some kid she met over the internet. Some Xbox thing. She's never met him. I've read Polar's other thread about this relationship. They are high school kids. Ohhhh. the Xbox thing won't last. My cousin tried that and it didn't work out.
ShannonMI Posted October 20, 2010 Posted October 20, 2010 I just got a message on formspring saying "You're too amazing" after we finished talking, do you guys think it's a coincidence? After all she seemed pretty cold in the messages... You got a message from her saying that to you? Why does she think you are amazing? Is she being sarcastic?
Leandro Posted October 20, 2010 Posted October 20, 2010 You got a message from her saying that to you? Why does she think you are amazing? Is she being sarcastic? For real??
Author Polar Posted October 20, 2010 Author Posted October 20, 2010 Formspring is anonymous so I don't know who sent it.
Leandro Posted October 20, 2010 Posted October 20, 2010 Formspring is anonymous so I don't know who sent it. So you don't know who sent it? Hmmmm that's weird
ShannonMI Posted October 20, 2010 Posted October 20, 2010 Formspring is anonymous so I don't know who sent it. Ok, I'm not familar with Formspring. Yea it's probably not you she's talking to. Sorry for that. Just let it go for now.
Author Polar Posted October 20, 2010 Author Posted October 20, 2010 I know :/ This puts me in a **** position because I don't know how to react...
Author Polar Posted October 20, 2010 Author Posted October 20, 2010 Ok, I'm not familar with Formspring. Yea it's probably not you she's talking to. Sorry for that. Just let it go for now. No, it was definetly someone asking me a question...here look: http://www.formspring.me/adamdamnlazzara You can ask people questions anonymously without leaving your name...so the message was intended for me, it's just who left it? It's a huge coincidence.
ShannonMI Posted October 20, 2010 Posted October 20, 2010 I know :/ This puts me in a **** position because I don't know how to react... I know you really want her back, but maybe you should back off a bit. That may make her come around more so then messaging her and all that. Let her come to you.
Leandro Posted October 20, 2010 Posted October 20, 2010 I know :/ This puts me in a **** position because I don't know how to react... Just try to forget about it.
ShannonMI Posted October 20, 2010 Posted October 20, 2010 No, it was definetly someone asking me a question...here look: http://www.formspring.me/adamdamnlazzara You can ask people questions anonymously without leaving your name...so the message was intended for me, it's just who left it? It's a huge coincidence. Oh ok. Hahahahahaha:D yeah maybe it was her then. Do you have any other admirers? Maybe it was someone else. Who knows
Author Polar Posted October 20, 2010 Author Posted October 20, 2010 I'm scared incase she isn't really dating him and is just testing to see if I think she is worth the effort... When we dated she had loads of cute statuses about me but now she has none for him.
ShannonMI Posted October 20, 2010 Posted October 20, 2010 I'm scared incase she isn't really dating him and is just testing to see if I think she is worth the effort... When we dated she had loads of cute statuses about me but now she has none for him. Well maybe it's because she's never met the kid. Is he her legit bf? It's weird that she even refers to him as her bf. She's never even met him.
Author Polar Posted October 20, 2010 Author Posted October 20, 2010 I don't know because like I showed you the other day, she still has looking for a relationship on her facebook?
ShannonMI Posted October 20, 2010 Posted October 20, 2010 I don't know because like I showed you the other day, she still has looking for a relationship on her facebook? Didn't it say she was with Gavin so and so? You guys are high school kids. I don't mean to sound like a b*tch, but from my experience young, immature high school kids think they are dating or in a relationship even when they aren't. Sometimes they don't know what "love" really is and what a real "relationship" really is. It's due to lack of experience. So maybe she put that as her status because she's immature? She hasn't met the kid, but they are bf/gf?? To me it just sounds weird.
Author Polar Posted October 20, 2010 Author Posted October 20, 2010 She speaks to him everyday it's like a long distance relationship...we were together for two years and I was her first time. I am not in school...i'm 19, she is still in school, she's 17. EDIT: Yeah it does say In a Relationship with Gavin but it also then goes onto say Open for dating etc...
ShannonMI Posted October 20, 2010 Posted October 20, 2010 She speaks to him everyday it's like a long distance relationship...we were together for two years and I was her first time. I am not in school...i'm 19, she is still in school, she's 17. EDIT: Yeah it does say In a Relationship with Gavin but it also then goes onto say Open for dating etc... Yeah well it sounds to me like she isn't the most mature girl. I mean she's only 17, so what do you expect? She's only been with you? You were her first bf?
Author Polar Posted October 20, 2010 Author Posted October 20, 2010 First serious boyfriend if you catch my drift...
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