Should I keep chasing him? Is he playing hard to get?

[OhTaylor]

I really like this guy but he has the rep of being a womanizer (even though he can't get many woman) at the start of the year we got really drunk and I took his virginity, I liked him for so long, then he told one of my mates he liked me to, but nothing happened.

 

Few months later I got myself a boyfriend, we lasted about 4 months, in that time me and the guy I still like stopped talking. Now that I'm single, we will see each other at parties, but when he is sober he can't look at me or talk to me (I sort of get ignored), but when he's drunk he will grab my hand for like 30 seconds then ignore me again.. he told my friend that I make him nervous.

 

My friend asked him if he liked me and he got all weird about it, then my mate yelled out "do you love her?!" and he nodded then walked away. If I try to talk to him online or txt him, he will stop replying. I really don't know if he like's me or not, or if I should give up or what steps I should take to try and get him to open up to me, because at the moment he seems to be playing me, maybe keeping me on a thread..

[Jayerjay]

Hmm, well if he doesn't get many women as you mentioned then the nervousness around you may be the reason for the strange behavior. I definitely wouldn't keep chasing him... either just tell him how you feel and put the ball in his court, or stop contacting him and let him pursue you.

 

If you put the ball in his court and he seems to string you along, be done with it because he's not interested enough.