utterer of lies Posted October 20, 2010 Posted October 20, 2010 The girls: A is a 28 year old photographer, perfectly beautiful, weird interesting chaotic thoughts, but with alcohol problems, a history of cocaine abuse and deeply troubled. B is a 23 year old graphic designer, still at university, pretty face, in a relationship but willing, very interested in art and culture. C is a 26 year old nurse and in training to become a chemist. amazing boobs, very intelligent, not the creative type but educated. The situation: I needed some time off after an affair I had and refrained from dating for some time. Recently, I felt I was over it and started opening my eyes to the world again. After a long time of chatting and talking I had a date last friday with A. I was blown away, she is so amazing but she was distracted with a personal problem. I felt she didn't appreciate my presence enough so I did not contact her at all afterwards. One day later she sends me an email saying she enjoyed the evening. I answer that I didn't get that impression, but that I thought it was nice. Later she starts chatting with me and explains that she had lots of personal drama going on and blah blah. I tell her I'm not used to this behavior and that if she ever wants anything from me again, she can call or text me. The next day she sends another email asking me if there's no chance for chatting, to which first respond no, then later 'we'll see'. B knows A but not very well. B chats with me almost every day, seems very interested but I'm not sure about her. I like that she's into art and design and that she enjoys being submissive and is into BSDM, but I don't really want another affair and all the problems that go with it. And I don't want her to leave her BF for me. I took her to an exhibition some weeks ago, and she reminds me almost daily she wants to go to a movie or museum or so. Another detail, A tried to get B to go to a hotel room with her some weeks ago (when I wasn't around), but B refused. With C I went to the botanical garden and afterwards had some drinks, that was a few weeks ago. I like her physically but she doesn't have a creative spark. I broke of contact after the date, but met her again by chance and she told me she wants to see me again, to which I responded that I'm not looking for a relationship, only for no strings attached sex. To my surprise, she immediately took up the idea and we set up a date for next weekend. She also texts me regularly. I probably would not have set up the date with C had I known the effect that A would have on me. On the other hand, the chance something serious develops with A seems negligible, and it's probably a bad idea to give her preference. Also, C might actually be ok with a longer FWB relationship, which I doubt B could do for long. With A, I could not do FWB because she's just too amazing. Life was easier when I had no dates.
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