smile01 Posted October 20, 2010 Posted October 20, 2010 hiii everyonee about 5 months ago i posted on here about my break up after a 2 year relationship and the arguements and drama with friends as well. I thought i had lost everything. Im posting this because its been 6 months since my break up and im HAPPY! i never ever thought i would get to this point! I am currently dating someone else who i met a month ago and i really like him! we have sooo much in common! im also over my ex! so to everyone who is hurting so so much right now, i know how your feeling but the pain goes. I was in such a dark place when i broke up with my ex but you get over it! i realised that hey its fun being single and i dont need someone on my arm! a month after realising i was happy now and didnt care about my ex anymore i found someone else who i like a lot. So for all of you out there the pain goes! its usually for the best that you broke up, i realised me and my ex were AWFUL as a couple but at the time i would never admit it! sooo chin upp! you will get there soon enough and be happy! it will take time to heal but when it does its the best feeling! my main advice is to keep busy! make sure you always have something to do! take up a hobby!! it helps sooo much ! i wrote a dairy and that helped a lottt soo good luckk
thatsonlyme Posted October 20, 2010 Posted October 20, 2010 congratulations, I'm very happy for you we need more threads like this! I'm getting there myself, although I still can't say I'm absolutely happy, I do feel great! My self confidence is at it's highest level in years! I do things that make me happy(er) and try to enjoy everything! I do need a little more time for absolute happiness, but so far I'm fine alone. I do everything my way and I'm afraid that I may end up becoming selfish an self centered. I don't think I will though good luck everyone
Nkognito Posted October 20, 2010 Posted October 20, 2010 This is definately a very inspriational thread indeed. I agree that we all will get to the point of no return for those who have hurt, betrayed or simply gave up on what could have been. But there is and will always be light at the end of every tunnel. I too have been speaking with a few girls, perhaps its too soon as my ex still haunts my mind because I am simply too caring for them. But with every parking lot there are speed bumps to go over, I have not quite found mine yet but in time we all will.
Author smile01 Posted October 21, 2010 Author Posted October 21, 2010 I agree, when you start to get over someone you become soo much more confident! Im so much more confident and a lot stronger now! its brilliant! and i wasnt 100% over my ex untill i met the new guy. I now can see how much me and my ex didnt work and really didnt have that much in common and thats all because i met someone who i was better suited too. Its really helped finding someone else! although if youre in the early stages of the breakup its best to be single for a while because i knew it would be a rebound if i got into a relationship too fast! but seriously everything has fallen into place! and im very happy! Everyone will have a time when things start into place wether its a few months or a year ! Its good to see your both getting there! just keep smiling and trust me you will be fine
Don Ho Posted October 21, 2010 Posted October 21, 2010 i wasnt 100% over my ex untill i met the new guy. I now can see how much me and my ex didnt work and really didnt have that much in common and thats all because i met someone who i was better suited too. Its really helped finding someone else! Other LS Dumpees, are you reading and listening?? She wasn't 100% over her Ex until she met someone else. And look what happened: he was better than the previous BF! I know when you get dumped and you're feeling miserable you can't see the light, but as Smile01 explains, there is a light (and often a brighter future) at the end of the tunnel!
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