Im really falling for the girl...

[Mjcurry]

And I only get to be with her for another month and a half.*

Ive been trying to date for the last year with no attention from any girls. I thought I was really unattractive and unlikable. However, Im on my last semester of college and I meet this great girl. I planned on just asking her out, getting rejected, and stop this whole dating game.

But she agreed...We went out on a few dates and then she kissed me... after a bit, i asked her if she would be my girlfriend. She said she just wanted to keep dating, she didnt want to be in a realationship during the school year. we dated some more but she started to get very distant. Our last date was really bad, she wasent talking, i ask her if she could give me a ride to pick up DJhero tuesday and she said she was busy, I tried to kiss her at the end of the night and she pulled away, and I told her to tell what was wrong or we were thru. she said she had gotten a message from facebook from my mom saying she was part of the family and that we loved her for dating her son... well thing is, my mom dosent have a facebook nor did the woman she describe sound like her. It wasent my mom and she apologized when i told her this. she was a little freaked out by it and the situation.

She then tells me the real reason she dosent really want a relationship is because, once she graduates she will be moving to California to pursue her dream of being a creature designer. (its one of the many things we had in common) I understood this cause I want to be great comic book artist, however my dream dosent really require me to relocate. She said if I still wanted to date it was up to me. The next day in class, I tell her I still want to date and that she owed me a way better date, and a way better kiss (and I got one ) plus she even agreed to take me to get djhero (she said she had been trying to distance herself from me cause of the whole mom thing, understandable) plus i remembered her saying that she needed a new sketch book so I bought her one and drew this really wicked dragon in it with a message in it saying" For (ill leave her name out) the most AWESOME girl I know, and even if you leave, I hope you dont forget about me "

 

her birthday was this week and i bought her a really AWESOME dragon statue and dragon necklace (she really loves dragons) and when we get djhero at midnight i was going to have to beg/ drag her to my room/dorm to surprise her with them

 

 

but then she tells me today her parents got mad and bitched at her for driving around so, so all she can go to is school and home. I text her back "awwww, its okay, i dont mean to sound selfish but does that mean you cant go on dates either" she sent me back " I dont ****ing know" I apologized and told her I had bought how to train you dragon on dvd. I could just walk or take the bus to her place and we could watch it together. She said she was too busy with school work and projects and couldnt this week . I said okay, joked that I was happy she told me instead of forgetting like many of my friends. she didnt respond, and then I sent her a text saying "well, have a good night" and she still didnt respond.

 

In during class I asked her if she was busy and wanted to go out for a bite to eat with me, she said she was busy, but would try Thursday. She also mention at first she was low on money this week, but I said I would cover this time, but she had next jokingly . So after class, I walk her to her car and give her the present and the necklace. I tell her she really means alot to me, even if she just wants to date. She then made out with me (another first, Im not sure how I did )

 

and today I texted her how was her day and still haven't gotten a response and that was like 4 hours ago. Is that being clingy, texting her on the days I dont see her asking her how her day was?

 

 

yesterday was our one month... Ive never dated anyone (ive gone on dates, but never dated, plus she was my first kiss) and she means alot to me. The thought that I only have a little under a month and a half to spend with her makes me very sad and Ive been really depressed all day Even though we only live 45 minutes away from each other I dont have a car she does, and I doubt she would want to come visit me if we arent in a relationship. And i hate this so much, I think I may be feeling love for her, but I dont want to say anything to scare her off

 

 

Plus i know when I move back home for the year or so there will be no available girls. I live by a highschool, so either theyre all jailbait, or theyre all married and retired and only moved there to be close to the highschool for their kids... Im really not looking forward to my future love life.

 

So with only a month and a half left, what should I try to learn, try, or experience? Plus any idea how I might be able to get over her once we're done? And what should I do about my love life then? Plus I dont know what to do now cause she cant go out with me anymore or date I guess also we're both 22 if that helps, Thanks for listening . I wrote all of this so you guys would know the whole situation and could maybe give me extra advice or what to do if you thought of it.

[Idalis]

Sorry you're going through this. It does get easier!

Honestly, I know it hurts to start drifting away since she can't date anymore, but it might be for the best. It would be harder for you once she moved away, if you were to be seeing each other very regularly.

As far as your future love life, do not fret it! Don't look at this experience as a bad one. You went out with someone and grew feelings for them and shaared a lovely time. Now its time to close that chapter and start a new one. Everything happens for a reason.

[youngskywalker]

Bum deal man. Just know this, if you try too hard and get flaky on this girl then you're going to ruin any small hope you now have. Play it cool and accept things in life that you can't change. She will find it attractive. Be supportive of her (don't forget she's going through a tuff time too) It will make a huge impression on her.

 

If it doesn't work better is around the corner for you. Don't get bummed out about there not being "any" girls in your area. I don't buy that at all! Check out the next town over if you have to.