Author WTRanger Posted October 21, 2010 Author Posted October 21, 2010 If they ever do it is probably long after it's happened when either they've gotten help or they're circumstances change enough to allow them to reflect back with clearer vision. That's usually the precise moment you are 99.9% over them and then all of a sudden they are willing to work things out.
silic0ntoad Posted October 22, 2010 Posted October 22, 2010 IDK WTR. I doubt my ex will ever feel remorse for what she did to me, and honestly, I say to hell with it. It doesn't matter. I wouldn't take her back without something miraculous happening. If ever she did come back she'd find nothing but a simple "No" from my lips, no to her seeking forgiveness, and no to her seeking friendship or reconciliation. I consider losing respect for someone the worst thing that can happen. You can hate someone but still respect them. I have zero respect for my ex. And there's no earning it back. I've let it go, and I am not angry, but I simply don't compromise on this situation anymore. It's 100% or 0%.
DustySaltus Posted October 22, 2010 Posted October 22, 2010 Just to clarify what I said earlier, my ex ran away from her problems. She also happens to have bpd. However, it doesn't matter in my book because I was the one who suffered in the end. It doesn't matter what the cause of them running is...they just did.
Author WTRanger Posted October 22, 2010 Author Posted October 22, 2010 To hell with water boarding terrorists, we should just get them a girlfriend and have her ignore him. He'll spill his guts in 3 days just to have any sort of human contact. The silent treatment really is the worst form of emotional torture, yet it is quite effective. So effective, that it creates an almost unforgivable situation. The trust is no longer there. No matter what she says, I'll never trust that it's the truth. Which is why never hearing from her again is probably a good thing.
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