Lucky555 Posted October 19, 2010 Posted October 19, 2010 My ex. He lied to me about wanting a relationship to get me in bed. I also discover he lied about not really being in contact with his ex. He lied on a number of occassions. He had commitment issues and then when he did committ he pushed me farther away didn't want to see me and I felt very used and strung along. It hurt. Well the fact is I let him go and he kept coming back! I then finally found out what he wanted because I was so tired of his leaving, lying, and everything about him. But my rose colored glasses were on for far Too long . He told me he didn't see anything long term. He wanted to be with me though. Otherwise all the time that he had been acting like he wanted a future just to see if he could sleep with me. At this point I knew this was the truth that he never told me. I said to myself no contact. We have never been a month nc but this time I want it to be forever. The way he has treated me and lied so many times I want nothing to do with him. He even has his ex still visiting and wanting him back which I had to did out through fb. I don't deserve this from. Guy. I am faithful I am loving and I am Considerate. I just don't get why nice girls like me get treated like this! It would be my fault if I let him back in my life but telling me there is no future and implying he wants to use me was the last straw. For the longest time he always said he was truely busy with work... I stood by him. Then he says we can't go far away on dates because of my work and then he's off going to games and going on vacations with his family. He never could leave his house because he just wanted me in his bed. So in venting but it sucks when I thought I had a friend and a great guy but then he treated me like crap. It's really not fair when all I wanted was to be happy and he had a horrible agenda This whole time. So 14 days and I'm going to not answer his emails or anything!!! I have to be strong for my happiness.
fabio10 Posted October 19, 2010 Posted October 19, 2010 Good for you ! Keep it up you deserve better !
Author Lucky555 Posted October 20, 2010 Author Posted October 20, 2010 Thanks! I can go no contact now that he really has told the truth. Anyways I just pray he leaves me alone
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