sara-lindsay Posted October 19, 2010 Posted October 19, 2010 Hey everyone! So here is my story, I am a 23 year old female. Fairly new to the whole dating game, my previous relationship lasted a little over 4 years, we started dating when we were both young, so after we broke up I was stuck with very little dating experience. I started talking to this guy a little over 3 weeks ago. We met online and instantly connected. We always have lots to say to one another and have very similar interests and goals in life. The first week we would talk online every couple nights and then we exchanged phone numbers and began to text. Now for the last 2 weeks we pretty much text message each other throughout the day when we know the other person is not busy with work. We also talk every night on MSN, sometimes until 2 or 3 in the morning. The conversation is always great. We finally met up on Saturday. We live on opposite sides of the city so he bussed out to my end and we spent a few hours having lunch and talking. About half way through the date he initiated holding my hand, which led to some cuddling and then finally a kiss. When the date ended he waited with me to make sure I got on my bus safely and said he looks forward to seeing me again. We have talked every night since then and he still seems just as interested as he was before. Only thing that kind of bothers me or confuses me is when I will see him again? He works as a manager for a really busy retail store in the tourist district of my city. He has crazy hours and doesn't get very many days off. He works the next 2 weekends, but I don't know when he has a day off in between. Should I ask him, or wait till he initiates? He always tells me he can't wait to see me again, and we make plans with each other for the future, such as "When that movie comes into theaters we will go together!" or "When that band plays here in December, we will go together" Also if we wait till he has a weekend off it will be almost 3 weeks. I just don't want him to lose interest in me, because all our "Dating" relationship consists of right at this point is talking online. Do you think he will?
Sauvignon Posted October 19, 2010 Posted October 19, 2010 I think so, if you are still actively in touch then his interest has not vanished anywhere. But think positively, sometimes it's better to wait when you know the date is coming, than not know and hope in fear if there will be a second one. It would surprise me if he would start to back out, you two seem to have clicked. And him being busy as a manager can be a good thing, he has his priorities straight so early in a relationship, I would not worry if I were you.
Author sara-lindsay Posted October 19, 2010 Author Posted October 19, 2010 Thanks a lot! Its true what you said, he definitely does have his priorities straight. I guess I just don't wait to come off as being needy because we talk a lot?
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