lolreconlol Posted October 19, 2010 Posted October 19, 2010 She dumped me about 2-3 weeks ago for various reasons, and we hung out last night and we hooked up a little, and we are planning to hang out this Saturday (on the 23rd, which would've been our 10 months). She said that she doesn't "know" if she wants a relationship, but if she feels the "passionate love" during sex, it could easily change her mind. During sex, she usually says yes to anything, so what are some things that I could do to really win her over during sex? Will her feelings come back once we start? Thanks!
machiavellian Posted October 19, 2010 Posted October 19, 2010 Sorry dude, but she's just playing with you it sounds like. Why would you jump through hoops for her while she makes up her mind whether your "good enough" or not? I wouldn't see her if I were you.
BackUpOrGetStung Posted October 19, 2010 Posted October 19, 2010 I agree. Cancel on her Friday or early Saturday, and if she asks why, just tell her you don't want there to be mixed signals, and to get in touch if she decides she wants to be with you. I know it doesn't make sense and you're not going to take this advice, but Sunday, you'll wish you did.
Cee Posted October 19, 2010 Posted October 19, 2010 I agree. Cancel on her Friday or early Saturday, and if she asks why, just tell her you don't want there to be mixed signals, and to get in touch if she decides she wants to be with you. I know it doesn't make sense and you're not going to take this advice, but Sunday, you'll wish you did. Quoted for truth.
stillafool Posted October 19, 2010 Posted October 19, 2010 I agree. Cancel on her Friday or early Saturday, and if she asks why, just tell her you don't want there to be mixed signals, and to get in touch if she decides she wants to be with you. I know it doesn't make sense and you're not going to take this advice, but Sunday, you'll wish you did. I agree also. If you do have the courage to do the above she will probably start chasing you.
waynebrady Posted October 19, 2010 Posted October 19, 2010 Don't you have any self respect? She already dumped you, move on, or otherwise it will just be embarrasing for you. As machiavellian said, she will just make you jump through hoops.
Knittress Posted October 19, 2010 Posted October 19, 2010 Dude. Stop being a doormat already! You can't make anyone feel anything, sexual or otherwise. (...unless you're THAT good...) (In which case - can I have your number?) (J/k, you sound waaaay too young for me.)
Author lolreconlol Posted October 19, 2010 Author Posted October 19, 2010 Don't you have any self respect? She already dumped you, move on, or otherwise it will just be embarrasing for you. As machiavellian said, she will just make you jump through hoops. I did move on, but she brought up the hanging out idea AND the sex idea, I don't get how I'm jumping through hoops if she is the one texting me, asking me these things. Dude. Stop being a doormat already! You can't make anyone feel anything, sexual or otherwise. (...unless you're THAT good...) (In which case - can I have your number?) (J/k, you sound waaaay too young for me.) I'm not young, I'm 20. I agree also. If you do have the courage to do the above she will probably start chasing you. I agree. Cancel on her Friday or early Saturday, and if she asks why, just tell her you don't want there to be mixed signals, and to get in touch if she decides she wants to be with you. I know it doesn't make sense and you're not going to take this advice, but Sunday, you'll wish you did. What will happen on Sunday if I go through with it? Sorry dude, but she's just playing with you it sounds like. Why would you jump through hoops for her while she makes up her mind whether your "good enough" or not? I wouldn't see her if I were you. She said she still has feelings for me, but she doesn't know if she wants to date me right now.
machiavellian Posted October 19, 2010 Posted October 19, 2010 I did move on, but she brought up the hanging out idea AND the sex idea, I don't get how I'm jumping through hoops if she is the one texting me, asking me these things. No, if you had moved on, you wouldn't be entertaining these ideas, or concerned with getting her back...JMO of course. Jumping through hoops because she said "jump" (blow her mind in bed) and you said "how high?" (LS, how do I accomplish this request and get her back?) I'm not young, I'm 20. Hehe, you are young! What will happen on Sunday if I go through with it? They are implying that she will chase you instead of the other way around. She said she still has feelings for me, but she doesn't know if she wants to date me right now. Forget the first part, which is playing games/confusing you, and focus on the second part, which is the truth.
BackUpOrGetStung Posted October 19, 2010 Posted October 19, 2010 "What will happen on Sunday if I go through with it?" On Sunday, you will be in the same position you are now, if you go through with meeting her. You're going to be wondering why she still doesn't want to date you, but still wants to sleep with you. She's just horny, she doesn't actually like you. She also likes knowing that she's got you roped in still, in case she wants to come back. She's never going to want you back if she knows she can have you. Just remove yourself completely, and tell her not to speak to you anymore unless she wants to get back together. Don't take my word for it though..do what you want.
stillafool Posted October 19, 2010 Posted October 19, 2010 What will happen on Sunday? She will wonder why she doesn't have you as wrapped around her little finger as she thought. She may also realize that she isn't the only girl on earth and you may have other options, which will make you seem more appealing to her. Why don't you date other people and not just her?
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