broken-and-lost Posted October 19, 2010 Posted October 19, 2010 (edited) I posted a bit earlier in the week about how i'd lost my girlfriend can look it up if you want the sad tail, but this is an update need some advice Crap, ok been doing the no contact thing been near two weeks, haven't liked it one bit but have just stuck with it call it healing call it giving someone time I was in the supermarket as i'm leaving i run into the ex, she looked really upset seeing me all the feeling came flooding back not that they had really gone anywhere. We spoke but i resisted the urge to beg for her back, she was holding back the tears kept turning away to hide her face, it was not nice. Anyway we both drive off and about a mile down the road we end up along side each other at traffic lights. we both look at each other i was upset so was she the road pans of in different directions we do a half wave and i felt like we were travelling different roads even tho we did not want too. I'm now left thinking what should i do continue the crappy NC or try and contact her again. I still think she will probably want us to be apart not because she wants to but more she is afraid to get back together incase i haven't fix my issues. Should i just leave her alone? because i don't want to cause anymore upset. or contact? don't want to lose her if i don't have to. I'm guessing i already know what your all going to say. still need to hear it from other people with perspective Edited October 19, 2010 by broken-and-lost
Author broken-and-lost Posted October 19, 2010 Author Posted October 19, 2010 (edited) I'm actually going to answer this for myself, best to leave the girl alone she needs to heal as do i NC is probably for the best, posting it here helps me not try and ruin someone else's healing time, both have to move on and work on selfs. If your going through something similar do the right thing by the other person and leave them be if they want to contact you and you want to be contact it will just happen done Edited October 19, 2010 by broken-and-lost
Trovador Posted October 20, 2010 Posted October 20, 2010 You gave yourself a good advice... But remember, NC is for you only... you are giving her space, but most important you are giving space yourself so you can have a new perspective not only on the ex relationship but in life itself...
Author broken-and-lost Posted October 20, 2010 Author Posted October 20, 2010 You gave yourself a good advice... But remember, NC is for you only... you are giving her space, but most important you are giving space yourself so you can have a new perspective not only on the ex relationship but in life itself... thumbs up on that one m8y, i'm concentrating on me now and moving on with my life and also try not to forget the reason i've reached this point things in my life needed to change regardless of the ex feelings and that's what i'm targeting Me. I'll let you all know how it goes and turns out as these forums have really help over the last few weeks i've started to eat and sleep again and i'm actually looking forward, i know there are going to be tough days ahead but also that i seem to have found peace of mind and that's what i've been looking for for a long time even before the ex came along....
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