jenjen10 Posted October 19, 2010 Posted October 19, 2010 Recently i went on 2 really amazing dates. I've had a hard time meeting someone that i really connect with and i thought i had finally found a good one. It really seemed as though he was also on the same page. We went out wednesday and had made plans to hang out on saturday. on friday i sent a text just confirming our plans for sat. He replied 24 hours later saying that he had dropped his phone in the toilet (yeah right) and he had some stuff to do and might be able to meet up later. I didn't reply and haven't heard from him. should i take that as a blow off and move on? I really would like to know what happened but i also don't want to come off as desperate.
Teknoe Posted October 19, 2010 Posted October 19, 2010 Recently i went on 2 really amazing dates. I've had a hard time meeting someone that i really connect with and i thought i had finally found a good one. It really seemed as though he was also on the same page. We went out wednesday and had made plans to hang out on saturday. on friday i sent a text just confirming our plans for sat. He replied 24 hours later saying that he had dropped his phone in the toilet (yeah right) and he had some stuff to do and might be able to meet up later. I didn't reply and haven't heard from him. should i take that as a blow off and move on? I really would like to know what happened but i also don't want to come off as desperate. Um, you didn't reply? I'm not surprised he didn't reply, then. And who knows, maybe he really did drop his phone. It's hard to say in this situation without knowing both of you guys on a deep level. At the same time, if I were him I would probably reply to your non-reply and check in. Then again, it's only been 2 dates. Maybe HE is waiting for YOU and taking it as you lost interest? Best thing to do is to communicate. You probably have to initiate.
Cee Posted October 19, 2010 Posted October 19, 2010 Next this guy. He doesn't return your text AND he blows you off on Saturday. Had he texted you and rescheduled the date right away, that would have been ok. Had he given you the toilet excuse, but stayed firm on the Saturday date, that would've been ok. But he kept you waiting & then faded for the date on a Saturday. Not cool. He'd be an instant delete on my phone. Sorry, he was a jerk.
Yvette_Sveden Posted October 20, 2010 Posted October 20, 2010 Yeah, I mean guys drop their phones in the toilet ALL THE TIME. All joking aside, go with what Cee said.
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