D-Jam Posted October 23, 2010 Posted October 23, 2010 I got advice from someone on here to hit on girls im not normally attracted to because it would be easier but they showed no interest in me either... My thinking is if im gonna get rejected anyway i might as well go after girls im attracted to rather then try to go out of my way to woo girls im not attracted to because they might be easier to get.. Do people really put that much thought into league or numbers when approaching? Do you say he or she is cute but he or shes a 7 and im a 5 so theyre too good looking for me? To me most people the streets are average or slightly below or above rarely do you see someone so hideous or stunning that you fele you dont belong with them so its not that easy to say ok i have no shot with this person i shouldnt approach or this persons mediocre looking im medicore looking im gonna give it a go.. How much thought do you put into the others persons attractiveness level compared to your own when approaching? To me its a very hard and subjective thing to do and you should just approach people your attracted to I'd only hit on the girl if I have an opportunity to chat, things seem good, and we seem to connect and have chemistry. "leagues" are only excuses for people not to try. You ever notice fashion models get with average joes, or you'll see hot actor or athlete with an average jane? Looks/wealth aren't the only deciding factors. Sometimes charm and confidence can make a 5 look like a 9.
EasyHeart Posted October 23, 2010 Posted October 23, 2010 In my mind, there are only two "leagues" of women: those I'm attracted to, and those that I'm not attracted to. That's the only thing I think about in deciding whether to pursue a woman.
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