souvlaki Posted October 18, 2010 Posted October 18, 2010 (edited) Souvlaki, whatever your intentions are, I don't think you're doing the OP a favor by threadjacking another's thread with your own. Your problems were already discussed and everyone has given you the appropriate advices to followthrough. Your decision to remain in your supposed " status quo" is your own choice, hence don't bring your own problems into someone else's spotlight. This comment is more of a 'thread jack' than mine was. I was relating my own experience to the OP's, a common response when somebody is going through a tough time, so she knows she's not alone. Edited October 18, 2010 by souvlaki
Star Gazer Posted October 19, 2010 Posted October 19, 2010 We had already had sex and gone on dates when he told me this, so I felt kind of led on. I had also already stated to him that I wasn't looking for NSA. How could you have been led on when his profile quite plainly told you what he was looking for?: (he even had casual sex listed as one of his "what a I looking for" or whatever). I don't see how you didn't connect the dots BEFORE you slept with him. And you said you wanted to take him at "face value"? His face value was pretty straight up: casual sex/NSA was what he's looking for. You accepted that offer.
SarahRose Posted October 19, 2010 Posted October 19, 2010 OP I think you know the answer. He just wants casual sex. Many guys use online dating just for that; their personal somewhat free brothel.
xpaperxcutx Posted October 19, 2010 Posted October 19, 2010 This comment is more of a 'thread jack' than mine was. I was relating my own experience to the OP's, a common response when somebody is going through a tough time, so she knows she's not alone. No, you're right, you're not merely threadjacking, you're literally spamming other threads telling people to " check out your thread".
amythan Posted October 19, 2010 Posted October 19, 2010 Or..... keep having sex with him because it's so good and in a few months time find yourself posting on here about your broken heart. I cannot agree more. I am there. Hope I have cut my loses months ago. I went to the same BUT loops you mentioned, kept going because we had such a connection and sex was great ... ... and now seriously hurt. Talk to him and take his answer as face value. If he is not ready to commit let it go.
RovingReporter Posted October 19, 2010 Posted October 19, 2010 He doesn't like you as much as he'd like you to believe he does. When a guy is really into a woman we stop at nothing to make her ours. I'm sure he'll have no problems with being your sex buddy though.
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