csite Posted October 18, 2010 Posted October 18, 2010 ok, i'm going to keep this dead simple and down to the point, no sob story, no nothing cause i know i wouldnt be arsed reading someone elses myself! I've been dating this girl for a few month now, i met her online via facebook, she lives about 3 hours drive from London however we dont get to meet too often, maybe once every 1-2 weeks if that. Recently she's been acting quite strange, she's okay looking girl, she has alot of male friends which is fine by me as i have a fair number of female friends. Most her mates keep commenting on her pictures about her looks which unlike most guys, i dont mind, to me it's an ego boost to know im the one sleeping with her at the end of the day! However last week she told me that her uncle (dad's brother) was found dead in his house, so i was being bit supportive of her, trying to be understanding, she had to go up north with her family as he lived in a different city, then she came up with this excuse that her blackberry messenger isnt working, so she's sending it back to be fixed? which is why i couldnt talk to her or see her updates apparently. At the same time she put a block on her facebook so i dont see her posts, and i wasnt able to comment on her pictures while all her other friends could! and i know for a fact that she's put her relationship status as in a relationship with me, so only i see it, however its hidden to all her other friends. She gave me the indication that she didnt want to talk last weekend because of the death in the family, so i left her to it, gave her space, but i got the indication that she was mourning, later i find that she's commenting on her friends fb status about the wild saturday night weekend she's been having back at home (while she told me she was up at her uncles place for the funeral) and she uploaded a few pics on her fb. I dont appreciate my friends lying to me, i most certainly dont appreciate my gf lying to me. The way i see this is, 1 - dump her straight 2 - stick to it, but dont commit, have fun, enjoy the sex, if she's cheating on you, its all good cause you just see her as a one night stand cause if she doesnt respect me enough to be fully honest with me, i shouldnt respect her. Now i'm very inclined to go with number 2, and i have no probs doing it, just wanted some comments from others too, incase im judging this too harshly because i used to really like her, now im losing alot of respect for her because of the small things. Thanks in advance guys.
aerogurl87 Posted October 18, 2010 Posted October 18, 2010 Option 1 sounds good right abut now. Don't sink to her level.
LittleTiger Posted October 18, 2010 Posted October 18, 2010 Option 1 sounds good right abut now. Don't sink to her level. I'll second that.
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