Hot girls

[counterman]

I just realized I've never asked out a hot girl before. All the girls I have been out with or have asked out have been attractive but none were HOT.

 

I don't know why that is. There was this hot girl standing a little distance away from me today. We kept on making eye contact. I am lamenting the fact that I didn't just go up and talk to her.

 

My hot girl friend once said "hot girls are like everybody else but just... hot". So, I am thinking I'm gonna start approaching hot girls from now on.

 

But, I have heard it isn't all that. So, is it worth it? Will I get turned apart?

[Pyro]

hot girls are subjective. What you find hot others may not and vice versa. If you are attracted to someone you ask them out, simple as that.

[xpaperxcutx]

If you meant if you were going to get turned down and TEARED apart, the general consensus will have to come down to how will you answer the question(s) below:

 

• on a scale of 1-10 how HOT are you?
  
• How tall are you?
  
• What physical features make you stand out from the average joe?
  
• What isyour annual income, and does your calling card come with a significant title that also entitled you to boss around other people?
  

:laugh:

[Green]

I only believe in asking girls out if you are completly attracted to them. I wouldn't date a girl if I didn't find them hot.

[sanskrit]

If you meant if you were going to get turned down and TEARED apart, the general consensus will have to come down to how will you answer the question(s) below:

 

• on a scale of 1-10 how HOT are you?
  
• How tall are you?
  
• What physical features make you stand out from the average joe?
  
• What isyour annual income, and does your calling card come with a significant title that also entitled you to boss around other people?
  

 

In other words, OP, to attract a woman in the top 30% of attractiveness and desirability, you must be in the top 1-5% of men. That's a given reality that you should accept before pursuing this course, but it should not deter you, just be prepared to thicken your skin some.

[Mad Max]

IME, the majority are not worth it. Of course, hotness is subjective. But, the majority of hot girls I have come across are stuck up, materialistic, and b*tchy. If you want to approach them, it's your call. I truly hope you find the one for you.

[somedude81]

How girls are way too demanding and no where near the trouble. Plus she's going to constantly have guys after her which is another thing to worry about.

[counterman]

As in the regulation ones. I see them around all the time. I have spoken to some of them... the ones I have spoken to seem really friendly.

 

After answering those questions, I would say I'm not even close to the benchmark that hot girls may have. I'm talking about universally "hot" girls.

 

In terms of subjectiveness, I guess there are girls are I find hot that others don't. These are the girls I would ideally date.

 

My friends who have been with them have always traded lower, so to speak. There seems to always be issues with them, whether it's cheating. But, that's ther experiences.

 

I might just do it for the fun of it, as something new, a different experience. Might well need thick skin:laugh:

[carhill]

Might well need thick skin

 

Nomex. Only way to go. Doubles as a firesuit at the race track.

 

I've only known a few 'hot' women personally, mostly friends of my ex-wife, but I've seen them take the breath of men away, many times; pretty amazing. Married or single, guys would do the bobble headed dog. Of her friends I knew best, meaning I knew their 'stuff', one was single. One was married. When the married one cast her eyes my way, I penned my little story about three cats and a mouse. The way she could turn that off and on like a switch was fascinating. Scary, actually.

 

If/when I meet a single one who captures my interest, sure, no worries, what could happen? The worst is she could laugh and make rude comments; LS has prepped me pretty well for that drill

[Awesome Username]

Give it a try! Not every hot girl has the same reaction, but a lot of them are good at filtering out guys' advances. Like others have said on here, have a thick skin and laugh off rejection if it happens. A lot of guys are afraid to approach really hot girls.

[counterman]

That's the thing, that effect they have . It's pretty funny. It's sort of like if one forgets your name and you don't even notice that she did.

 

I should just give it a try and see what happens. Could be fun. You're right, the worst they could do is laugh at me, even give me the cold shoulder or make a rude comment, even put me down.

 

I have spoken to hot girls before, but have never gone over that hurdle of asking them out. I don't know what it is. I am not afraid of rejection and when I think it to myself, I say "why am I not asking them out then?"

 

If one does get my interest (more than physically), then I will see what happens:D

[Tim The Enchanter]

Well as they say, beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Having said that, I recently went on a date with someone whom I found very attractive. After years of building up my confidence with women to the point that I felt I was pretty ok with them, I suddenly developed a huge anxiety over this person. It was compounded all the more by the fact that she seemed to be attracted to me - lots of flirty glances from her, lots of physical contact, and then at the end of the date we shared a passionate kiss.

 

Since that time I have been quite literally sweating over her. Why? Because while I have been worrying myself silly over whether she likes me or not, and whether I can secure a second date and escalate things, she has been as cool as a cucumber. Simply calling her became an ordeal which I would have to plan days in advance. Crazy.

 

This is the difference between dating a regular girl that you like, and one that makes your heart beat hard in your chest. It's very, very hard to play it cool around such a person, especially if you are not used to courting very attractive women.

 

I did call her last Sunday and we agreed to go out on a second date this Thursday, but now she's not even returning my calls. Looks like I lucked out.

[Tim The Enchanter]

Give it a try! Not every hot girl has the same reaction, but a lot of them are good at filtering out guys' advances.

 

That applies to even regularly attractive women too. It's a good skill to be able to sense when a woman is trying to brush you off, as it saves your own time and stops you making a fool out of yourself.

 

The thing about really attractive women is that they basically have the cream of the crop of guys chasing after them. You really do need something to make yourself stand out, whether it's your looks, personality or your financial status. That's what I feel, anyway. It's like what Tony Montana says to Manolo in 'Scarface' - women like power. When you have money, you have power, that's when you get the (really hot) women.

 

Even if you were somehow able to charm some hot girl you saw at a bar, how are you going to keep hold of her when ever Don Juan and Romeo in the vicinity is going to be after her, and you still live with your parents?

[BS76]

hot girls are subjective. What you find hot others may not and vice versa. If you are attracted to someone you ask them out, simple as that.

 

That's not entirely true. Most men are attracted to similar things across the board. A healthy BMI, 0.7 hip to waist ratio, clear skin, youthful appearance, etc. The broad strokes if you will. Beyond that then yes, details matter, but those things listed here, among a few others, are generally what's at the core of what makes a woman attractive to men.

[Pyro]

That's not entirely true. Most men are attracted to similar things across the board. A healthy BMI, 0.7 hip to waist ratio, clear skin, youthful appearance, etc. The broad strokes if you will. Beyond that then yes, details matter, but those things listed here, among a few others, are generally what's at the core of what makes a woman attractive to men.

 

I was referring more to specific details though.

[counterman]

That's the thing... what separates me from all the other guys going after her? Nothing. I am just an average joe. Plus, I am not willing to keep others at bay through my status, or any other means.

 

I guess that is where the whole illusion ends. As much as she is attractive, it is just looks, which does nothing for my wellbeing. Physical attraction is but just one facet of the overall attraction.

 

Universally hot or not, as long as I am attracted to her that's all that matters.

 

Being at a function event, and seeing all these beautiful women, it was a lovely atmosphere. They seemed to be in a different class to everyone else. I did wonder what it would be like just to be with one of them.

 

The few hot girls I know are single. They have the most fun though.

[Cee]

From the perspective of a 40-year old woman, I think most women under 30 look hot. And guys too. I don't think younger people realize how attractive they really are. My perspective is completely useless and probably unwanted (eww, 40 is old), but try to revel in your youthful attractiveness. And try to see the inherent beauty (physical and internal) in every woman you see. You'll be amazed at how your options open up exponentially.

[dispatch3d]

the more attractive a girl is, the more bitchy/harder to approach. So yeah, you'll have an easier time dating girls who are less attractive.

 

I've never heard any guys who were good with girls refer to them as "hot" at any point.

[Curious-One]

Its funny you guys say the hot girl will have guys constantly chasing after her. That is not necessarily true, you guys seem to forget that 20% of the guys do 80 percent of the ****ing for a reason. That reason is that most guys are afraid to approach girls especially the hot ones. I know of few hot girls that have complained about not getting approached... most guys will look heck even stare but will not dare talk to that hot girl.

 

The problem is that if you do get the so called hot 9/10 , 10/10 the only guys are gonna be approaching her is the player type guys who have done this a million times and are ususally very good at seducing girls.

[sanskrit]

From the perspective of a 40-year old woman, I think most women under 30 look hot. And guys too. I don't think younger people realize how attractive they really are. My perspective is completely useless and probably unwanted (eww, 40 is old), but try to revel in your youthful attractiveness. And try to see the inherent beauty (physical and internal) in every woman you see. You'll be amazed at how your options open up exponentially.

 

Was at an event over the weekend with 300ish in attendance where the women were far above average in looks. Interestingly enough, the best looking women there were in the 35-45 range, many of them having had several children. There were many good looking women 25-35 also, but they had not grown into themselves yet. Just one event of course.

[Untouchable_Fire]

Its funny you guys say the hot girl will have guys constantly chasing after her. That is not necessarily true, you guys seem to forget that 20% of the guys do 80 percent of the ****ing for a reason. That reason is that most guys are afraid to approach girls especially the hot ones. I know of few hot girls that have complained about not getting approached... most guys will look heck even stare but will not dare talk to that hot girl.

The problem is that if you do get the so called hot 9/10 , 10/10 the only guys are gonna be approaching her is the player type guys who have done this a million times and are ususally very good at seducing girls.

 

That is simply not accurate. The truth is that many guys like me, have already been through a couple of girls who thought they were hot.... and we didn't like it at all.

 

The real problem with highly attractive women is that from a young age everyone treats them like they are special because of their looks. They absolutely suck to date. It's just so High maintenance and they are so entitled that it just isn't worth it. That also goes for girls who are not that hot, but think they are... or were back in highschool.

 

So... if you think most guys are just intimidated by a really pretty woman... you are off your rocker. Most of us just don't want to put up with the crap that comes with it.

 

Let the players have them. I'd rather have a woman with good looks and a better heart.

[Seamless74]

i hear the O.P.s point I understand what hes saying.. I mean to me sometimes Ill see what I call the "Untouchables" u know the beautiful girl driving in her brand new land cruiser or range rover blabbering on teh cell phone, ( it really is amazing i challenge you to ever see an attractive woman driving in a land cruiser without talking on a cellphone) and i hate to admit it but they probably are out of my league... But alot of it has to do with lifestyle I mean the moneys one thing, but also their lifestyle, their interests, their social circle, their parents... its just probably something that makes no sense for me to get with or even try to... no future in it.. But then later on ill see an equally attractive woman whos not on teh cellphone and not in the land cruiser or range rover u know? Its really just a matter of fit.. point is you just cant go around COVETING every woman you see..

 

Im telling you bro the best you can do.. Is respond appropriately when the most attractive woman you see gives you any type of go ahead signal..since women do the choosing you gotta make yourself look and act like someone worth being chosen...

 

And if you do stumble into a wonderful conversation with said attractive women.. Your first goal afterword should be to find the next most beautiful woman and have another conversation... you cant be the guy whos never talked to an attractive woman before and just has to seal the deal u know? instant attraction killer...

[bac]

Was at an event over the weekend with 300ish in attendance where the women were far above average in looks. Interestingly enough, the best looking women there were in the 35-45 range, many of them having had several children. There were many good looking women 25-35 also, but they had not grown into themselves yet. Just one event of course.

 

Right, but when you are going to be in 40-50s, you will change your mind about it.

[bac]

Who are the hot girls? Are they superconfident and supersexy? Am I right?

Does a man always have an instant and prolong erection when he is around them?

Is a girl hot if she is only sexy but she is shy?

[Lakeside_runner]

Is a girl hot if she is only sexy but she is shy?

 

These are THE BEST!!!