Is there such a thing as ethics when you're not in a commited relationship?

[Angel1111]

I stated from the beginning that if she was going to have a physical relationship with someone else, then I was not going to be involved with her any more.

 

I know I don't have a leg to stand on. If you're not in a committed relationship then you can do anything you want, I guess. I don't know.QUOTE]

 

There seems to be a contradiction in what you say. If you told her that you didn't want her sleeping with anyone else and that was understood, then I don't see how that's not a committed relationship. Regardless, you definitely have a leg to stand on. Anyone with half a brain knows that if you're sleeping with one person, you should tell them if you're sleeping with someone else. As I mentioned before, the only reason a person would choose not to divulge that information is because they know the person would bolt.

 

Just face it, this girl is living in the moral-free zone right now and until she snaps out of it, it's really your call as to how you handle this instead of trying to get inside her head trying to understand her lack of ethics.

[mustangsb27]

You're right. You guys have been a lot of help. I wish somehow this could work out but it might be permanently damaged by what I'm pretty sure she knows (that I know what's going on). Maybe she'll figure it out one day and realize that a really good guy is hard to find. A good guy who doesn't cheat or anything. I know, only in the movies, right?