claudius Posted October 17, 2010 Posted October 17, 2010 i am very shy and dont talk. when my friends talk to me i just smile. and my friend just talks to my other friend and i'm left out what should i do
Cee Posted October 17, 2010 Posted October 17, 2010 Break the shyness cycle by hanging out with friends one-on-one. Start a conversation and take the lead. Pick a topic you are passionate about so you have things to say. It's ok to tell your friends that you want to talk more & to ask for them to draw you out. Or gently nudge you to talk. Keep practicing talking. Talk to anyone you possibly can, even to say, "Can I borrow a pen?" I had a friend who was very quiet. I would ask him a question and he would give a one word answer. I loved him, but it was draining to draw him out. I wished that he would for once blab about anything and let me listen. I suspect that it wasn't just shyness, but he didn't want to open up for fear of criticism or judgment.
bee55 Posted October 17, 2010 Posted October 17, 2010 Break the shyness cycle by hanging out with friends one-on-one. Start a conversation and take the lead. Pick a topic you are passionate about so you have things to say. It's ok to tell your friends that you want to talk more & to ask for them to draw you out. Or gently nudge you to talk. yes, it is good consider at the past, i had the same problem, but i try hang out with friend one - on - one. now my friends are comfortable with me, and i enjoy talking
LoveAintEverything Posted October 19, 2010 Posted October 19, 2010 You need to be more social or you just will not have any friends.....maybe go talk to someone?
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