dingdong Posted October 17, 2010 Posted October 17, 2010 I've woken up today and it's been NC since Monday there. I really miss him today, I keep trying to make excuses to myself about why I should contact him. This is so difficult, surely if he wanted to fix things like he said he'd have been in touch by now, the last I heard from him was Tuesday telling me something but I ignored him. Helllp, should I have replied on Tuesday?!
Author dingdong Posted October 17, 2010 Author Posted October 17, 2010 Here it is http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t249344/ problem. I called a mutual friend who asked me if he had called me yesterday, i said no and they seemed as though they they thought he was going to call me, this really annoyed me so i broke my NC and called him, I am so annoyed with myself. He said he was going to contact me with info on what he has been doing to try and sort things out with me. He then got all tearful on the phone about how he wanted things back to the way they were, i told him that i really just wanted to hear what he was going to do to fix things. The contact on tuesday was about his divorce, when we met he was seperated and said he'd get a divorce after the 2 years seperation period, which was fine but he didnt do it. he's really messed up and he got therapy but didn't stick to it. anyway, i'd say i was the dumper in the situation, things werent going too well anyway because we were kind of stuck in a battle. the email on tuesday was him telling me his divorce would be through on the 4th of november. and he said he'd been looking at moving nearer me because that was one of our big issues, that logistically i wasnt able to get to his house easy because i dont drive. it's all quite complicated.
Author dingdong Posted October 17, 2010 Author Posted October 17, 2010 could someone help, I have just made a complete ar*se of this now, I was back on the phone again there and basically told him I didn't want to hear from him unless he's going to fix things, we ended up arguing over whats all happened and he said he will only contact me if he has something to tell me he has done. I can't help feeling like he is just trying to get rid of me but not being totally honest about it. Like as though he is trying to get rid of me the easy way! I don't know what to do, could someone give me some advice please. i feel now even with NC that the ball is in his court, I have totally ruined it.
Author dingdong Posted October 17, 2010 Author Posted October 17, 2010 is there something wrong with what i have written that no one is replying to me????
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