jwallace1986 Posted October 16, 2010 Posted October 16, 2010 hey everyone could really use some advice here. Just broke up with a girl i was dating for around 6 months. Cut a long story short she still has feelings for her ex even though shes admitted she'll never get back together with him because theyll never work out. She was in a pretty serious relationship with him that lasted over a year and it was a bad break up. Even though i realise i started off as the 'rebound guy' shes said shes developed genuine feelings for me and was really happy together. She said she didnt want to break up but said its not fair on me that she still has feelings for someone else and knows its hurting me. i feel terrible about the whole situation because we got on so well and now have to break up over someone she doesnt even want to be with. its been 3 weeks and shes sending me msgs how much she misses me and that im the one she wants to be with, but needs time to sort her head out and get over him. I know these things take time but its already been almost a year since she broke up with him and she still has feelings, so should i just give up any hope and do my best to completely move on from her? Any thoughts or advice would be really appreciated
Billie The Puppet Posted October 16, 2010 Posted October 16, 2010 Never wait on anyone whom you've already met/dated,only wait for the "one" to come into your life.
USMCHokie Posted October 16, 2010 Posted October 16, 2010 hey everyone could really use some advice here. Just broke up with a girl i was dating for around 6 months. Cut a long story short she still has feelings for her ex even though shes admitted she'll never get back together with him because theyll never work out. She was in a pretty serious relationship with him that lasted over a year and it was a bad break up. Even though i realise i started off as the 'rebound guy' shes said shes developed genuine feelings for me and was really happy together. She said she didnt want to break up but said its not fair on me that she still has feelings for someone else and knows its hurting me. i feel terrible about the whole situation because we got on so well and now have to break up over someone she doesnt even want to be with. its been 3 weeks and shes sending me msgs how much she misses me and that im the one she wants to be with, but needs time to sort her head out and get over him. I know these things take time but its already been almost a year since she broke up with him and she still has feelings, so should i just give up any hope and do my best to completely move on from her? Any thoughts or advice would be really appreciated No, you should not wait. Note the bolded above...she certainly says lots of wonderful things, but her actions say otherwise. If she truly didn't want to break up with you, she wouldn't have. Her words are irrelevant...it's her actions that matter... LAUNCH.
alwayshoping Posted October 16, 2010 Posted October 16, 2010 hey everyone could really use some advice here. Just broke up with a girl i was dating for around 6 months. Cut a long story short she still has feelings for her ex even though shes admitted she'll never get back together with him because theyll never work out. She was in a pretty serious relationship with him that lasted over a year and it was a bad break up. Even though i realise i started off as the 'rebound guy' shes said shes developed genuine feelings for me and was really happy together. She said she didnt want to break up but said its not fair on me that she still has feelings for someone else and knows its hurting me. i feel terrible about the whole situation because we got on so well and now have to break up over someone she doesnt even want to be with. its been 3 weeks and shes sending me msgs how much she misses me and that im the one she wants to be with, but needs time to sort her head out and get over him. I know these things take time but its already been almost a year since she broke up with him and she still has feelings, so should i just give up any hope and do my best to completely move on from her? Any thoughts or advice would be really appreciated I think she seems nice, if she is and you really like/love her wait. You have nothing to lose afterall, but tell her you wont wait forever and if she makes you wait too long she may lose you. I just think some things are worth waiting for and at least the girl has been honest with you! thats just my take but the others are way more experienced than me! im still a newbie thats had his heart broken! good luck x
USMCHokie Posted October 16, 2010 Posted October 16, 2010 You have nothing to lose afterall... It's called dignity...
WTRanger Posted October 16, 2010 Posted October 16, 2010 Never make someone a priority when they only see you as an option. You do have everything to lose by even waiting one day. You miss an opportunity to meet that girl who can actually reciprocate your feelings. Let this girl figure things out on her own.
shayan Posted October 17, 2010 Posted October 17, 2010 I concur don't ever wait on anyone! If they want to be in your life they'll let you know whether your our talking to new women or not. **** Waiting.
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