reknown29 Posted October 16, 2010 Posted October 16, 2010 so I went no contact for about a week. I was actually dumped about 6 weeks agoand went through all the wrong things like drunk texting, etc. I am still pretty open with this girl about how I feel because apparently she says that I never cared about her or never showed it. so she comes over last night and spends the night. no sex allowed just some very intimate kissing and touching. i ask her how she feels and she says she does not want to get into a relationship with me and that she just misses me. we then get into the breakup again. she didnt want to talk about it, I did. She says I pushed her away by being distant and saying things that she cant repeat a couple months ago. she says it is all my fault that we are not together. i tell her she is to blame as well for not being a clear communicator. she says it is not her fault that she broke up with me. im like wtf, "if you really wanted it to work, we could have talked it out" she slams the door and leaves. where do i go from here? more no contact? move on (which is impossible for me to do)? im guessing i should let her contact me? i know she had interest in another man before the breakup and that they are dating now...
Author reknown29 Posted October 16, 2010 Author Posted October 16, 2010 her exact words were actually "i did not wrong you by breaking up with you". i have been in so much pain over his breakup, she says she rarely thinks of me. now its my fault that we are not together. why cant she just take the responsibilty for the ending of the relationship? btw this girl is extremely attractive. she has been in vogue. everyone kisses her ass all the time which may have something to do with this.
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