lamp65 Posted October 16, 2010 Posted October 16, 2010 I've been split up with my ex (with had a 3 year relationship) for the whole of this year. Well, we have seen each other a few times to give it another go, but then I get my hopes up and he changes his mind again. All this year, on and off, we've exchanged emails - usually started my me I must admit. I know it's over for good but I just can't get him out of my head. He's the first thing I think of every day and the last thing at night. It's driving me nuts. I have a small close circle of friends, but they have their own lives and families and partners, so we don't meet up often. I'm stuck alone, apart from going out to work. Can rarely afford a night out anyhow and holidays - no, no money for them and no-one to go with. How do I get over him? I still love him and he says he loves me, but he's never coming back. He's just in my head all the time. How do I get him out of my head and stop emailing him? Don't say find someone else - I tried that and hurt someone, not meaning to. Feel really bad about that. Any advice would be welcome.
alwayshoping Posted October 16, 2010 Posted October 16, 2010 I've been split up with my ex (with had a 3 year relationship) for the whole of this year. Well, we have seen each other a few times to give it another go, but then I get my hopes up and he changes his mind again. All this year, on and off, we've exchanged emails - usually started my me I must admit. I know it's over for good but I just can't get him out of my head. He's the first thing I think of every day and the last thing at night. It's driving me nuts. I have a small close circle of friends, but they have their own lives and families and partners, so we don't meet up often. I'm stuck alone, apart from going out to work. Can rarely afford a night out anyhow and holidays - no, no money for them and no-one to go with. How do I get over him? I still love him and he says he loves me, but he's never coming back. He's just in my head all the time. How do I get him out of my head and stop emailing him? Don't say find someone else - I tried that and hurt someone, not meaning to. Feel really bad about that. Any advice would be welcome. You will get over them in time. Sometimes time takes longer than we like but we have little choice in the matter. Until then try meet new people, perhaps join a sports team or do something you enjoy and get to meet some nice new people. It maybe hard at first but you will thank yourself in the end! i just went out last night out of my comfort zone to meet new people and it was so scary but did manage to get my mind off her! im not over her but its good to forget every once in a while. Who know the day i never think of her maybe just round the corner. Good luck getting over it x
broken-and-lost Posted October 16, 2010 Posted October 16, 2010 Its really hard i really feel for you i'm going through the same thing i can't get my ex out of my mind. Nothing anyone says on here is going to make you feel better right now it's always time but no one can tell you how long it will take for you. I've accepted, i've lost my girlfriend but i'm finding it hard not to think about her and how my life without her will be but in the end i know i'll move on. I hope you don't suffer too much and one day we all can look back on this and think what was all the fuss about good luck
Gt.ooh Posted October 16, 2010 Posted October 16, 2010 Well, it's been a month for me. I took action because I couldn't take it anymore. My gf and I ended it for good. She fell out of love for me or something like that. Anyways, I put her pictures away, took the promise ring off today. Contacting as many ppl as possible and just getting on with it. Givin my situation she's soo angry about nothing. I've scratched a second chance, but I have a gut feeling going on where I'll be getting a call in a few months. So what I'm saying is I suffered for about a month exactly. Made contact again, and she wasn't in any hurry to change her mind. I'm going to start msging women on the internet and put myself out there. 1 month for me, everyone is different.
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