grecian Posted October 15, 2010 Share Posted October 15, 2010 i would like to flirt with the guy i go out with through text messaging but i don't know exactly how to do it without sounding desperate or needy. just want to send him sms occasionally because we don't get to see each other very often due to schedules and distance, and i want to keep the communication going. we don't have sexual relationship yet so it can't be anything too sexy. any ideas?? Link to post Share on other sites
atlnay Posted October 15, 2010 Share Posted October 15, 2010 Don't overthink it. You can start by just sending mild suggesting pics, say you in a tank top, from the neck down only and a simple, "Can't WAIT to see you again!" Or tell him you had a naughty dream about the both of you. Or buy a new nightie and take a pic of you in it and tell him you'll surprise him with another outfit next time you see him in person. Link to post Share on other sites
tami-chan Posted October 16, 2010 Share Posted October 16, 2010 Don't overthink it. You can start by just sending mild suggesting pics, say you in a tank top, from the neck down only and a simple, "Can't WAIT to see you again!" Or tell him you had a naughty dream about the both of you. Or buy a new nightie and take a pic of you in it and tell him you'll surprise him with another outfit next time you see him in person. Ack..no..! this is too forward, I think. How about,(if he is from Georgia) "how is fall in Georgia? Just heard Ray Charles' "Georgia On My Mind" and thought of you"...or something similar ! Link to post Share on other sites
Allisha Posted October 16, 2010 Share Posted October 16, 2010 (edited) If you're not ready to be sexual with him, don't become overly flirty with him or he may have some expectations when you see him. Just bounce off whatever he says. Maybe something like this.. I remember my ex asking what I was upto and I replied with something like, "just went shopping. bought loads of stuff..like whipped cream :D" I don't know if that's a good example, but the idea is there. Doesn't have to be directly sexual or graphic. At the end of the day, all I did was mention something I bought whilst shopping, right? Generally, men have totally filthy minds, so all you gotta do is plant the seed, and let it grow... Edited October 16, 2010 by Allisha Link to post Share on other sites
Pfiend101 Posted October 16, 2010 Share Posted October 16, 2010 Ack..no..! this is too forward, I think. How about,(if he is from Georgia) "how is fall in Georgia? Just heard Ray Charles' "Georgia On My Mind" and thought of you"...or something similar ! I wouldnt send this. lol Send him some sort of pic thats not over the top. Maybe like your halfway pulling your shirt up or something. Link to post Share on other sites
redmelon Posted October 16, 2010 Share Posted October 16, 2010 I wouldnt send this. lol Send him some sort of pic thats not over the top. Maybe like your halfway pulling your shirt up or something. WTF? Don't send a suggestive picture! Tami-chan is right on the mark here. What she suggests is harmless flirting to keep you on his mind while you are apart. It's not appropriate to send pics of yourself, you'll look like a crazy person if you do that, I fear. Link to post Share on other sites
FL Lady Posted October 16, 2010 Share Posted October 16, 2010 Read the book Flirtexting. It is pretty good and has ideas in it Link to post Share on other sites
atlnay Posted October 16, 2010 Share Posted October 16, 2010 Ack..no..! this is too forward, I think. You're right. I missed where she said nothing too sexy Link to post Share on other sites
sanskrit Posted October 18, 2010 Share Posted October 18, 2010 How about,(if he is from Georgia) "how is fall in Georgia? Just heard Ray Charles' "Georgia On My Mind" and thought of you"...or something similar ! I wouldnt send this. lol Send him some sort of pic thats not over the top. Maybe like your halfway pulling your shirt up or something. Tami-chan is right on the mark here. What she suggests is harmless flirting to keep you on his mind while you are apart. It's not appropriate to send pics of yourself, you'll look like a crazy person if you do that, I fear. Have actually had the flirting technique Tami suggests used on me, and it works like a charm. For a woman to do something that shows her creativity in that way is unique and sexy. But the shirt-pulling picture is also a great idea , just not taken too far, there is more than one way to skin a kat in the world of flirting! Link to post Share on other sites
tami-chan Posted October 19, 2010 Share Posted October 19, 2010 Have actually had the flirting technique Tami suggests used on me, and it works like a charm. For a woman to do something that shows her creativity in that way is unique and sexy. But the shirt-pulling picture is also a great idea , just not taken too far, there is more than one way to skin a kat in the world of flirting! :lmao:!!!!! too funny!!!!! Link to post Share on other sites
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