lolreconlol Posted October 15, 2010 Posted October 15, 2010 We broke up a couple weeks ago, and as time has passed we've been more friendly. Obviously in the beginning I was annoying her trying to get her back, then I started to give up (and in that time, she started texting me) saying things such as "I made funfetti cupcakes today, it reminded me of you". When I started trying to move on and just forget about her, she started texting me first without me even thinking about texting her. She said she needs time before we get back together so she can just relax for a while, and said it could take anywhere from a day to a year. We are planning on seeing each other on next Monday, and next Saturday (which would've been our 10 months). She originally said Monday would just be a chance to pick up her necklace, but last night she said she isn't going to go to her gym class so she can talk longer. Anyway, I tell her that I'm going to transfer to a school far away if she doesn't give it another chance between us, and she says that I pulled a fast one, and she needs time to think about it, and that she can't just make a decision like that on the spot. She said she'll tell me her answer on next Saturday when I see her. She also texted me yesterday (without me texting her) saying "I want sex.." and I asked if we could do it on Saturday, and she said "idk yet". She texted me good morning this morning for the first time since we broke up (EEEE ), and basically said she would call me every night while she's on this mini vacation with her friend over the weekend. I told her to think about her decision for Saturday while she's gone and she said "yes dear". Based on this new information: 1. Does it seem like I have a chance of getting her back on the 23rd (Saturday)? 2. If so, what do I do? 3. Do I try to kiss her on Monday? Should I just catch her off guard and kiss her? 4. The way I look at it, if she DIDN'T want to try and fix things on the 23rd, she would just say no, correct? Thanks for any help.
zerovandez Posted October 15, 2010 Posted October 15, 2010 Less is more. Do nothing. Let her come to you. That's the advice I should've took. Don't make my mistakes by making plans or expecting something. Good luck.
Author lolreconlol Posted October 15, 2010 Author Posted October 15, 2010 Less is more. Do nothing. Let her come to you. That's the advice I should've took. Don't make my mistakes by making plans or expecting something. Good luck. Why, what did you do in your situation? These plans have been set for a while, so what do i do?
John018 Posted October 15, 2010 Posted October 15, 2010 Based on this new information: 1. Does it seem like I have a chance of getting her back on the 23rd (Saturday)? 2. If so, what do I do? 3. Do I try to kiss her on Monday? Should I just catch her off guard and kiss her? 4. The way I look at it, if she DIDN'T want to try and fix things on the 23rd, she would just say no, correct? Thanks for any help. 1. Maybe, it's hard to say for sure 2. Be cool 3. Not unless she gives you strong signals that she wants you to 4. God knows what goes through womens' minds.
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