scottyboy Posted October 14, 2010 Posted October 14, 2010 Hey guys and gals, long time lurker, first time poster. My ex gf and i broke up two months ago, and i went NC for about a month till i broke it. I called her up and tried to get her back but she felt like she needed more time. After another month of NC i ended up calling her again, trying to convince her to get back with me. We broke up due to reoccurring problems on my part, such as not putting her as my first priority. For example, i would always frequent the pub with my coworkers almost everyday after work (it sorta became a tradition), and she felt neglected. Other issues involved my motivation for succeeding in life. I never really worked hard enough to get a promotion at the company where i worked. She was afraid to get back with me because she felt like i wouldnt change. Well after two months i think i learnt my lesson. I realized many shortcomings of mine, and i do agree that they need to be addressed. After two hours of talking and pleading, she agreed to go on a date with me next week to see how it goes. What things should i do on that date? ( or what things should i not do ) any input or advice is greatly appreciated !!!!
thatsonlyme Posted October 14, 2010 Posted October 14, 2010 I'm not sure how much I can help, but here is my take. She has your balls now and she'll probably try to get out of it as much as possible. Please be careful even if she gets back with you because now the ball is in her court. No matter what you do don't make her your first priority! You have to be your first priority, I've learned this lesson hard way. Of course, don't make her feel neglected, but don't give up on your social life entirely! Been there, done that and now I'm all alone.
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