danny1972 Posted October 13, 2010 Posted October 13, 2010 hi all , if any of you read my previous post , i split with my gf seven months ago we have had some l/c mostly me begging pleading etc ... which didn't work for obvious reasons .. anyhow decided to go N/C 3 weeks ago i changed my number and began n/c however 2 days ago i get a missed call on my home phone from her and again yeasterday , the problem is im very much still in love with her and want to maintain n/c now what if the call was to suggest talking and maybee reconciling ? but then again it could be to do with the tax bill that we both owed , if i ring her back and she says it's about the bill ,my n/c has gone back to zero , but what if she wants to give it another try ? and im to stubborn to call her back she may decide to move on permanently if i dont answer the phone. , do i call her and hope she wants me back or do i carry on n/c ??? any suggestions ???
fabio10 Posted October 13, 2010 Posted October 13, 2010 A blunt, cold, boring email, asking was she contacting you concerning the bill
Weekender Posted October 13, 2010 Posted October 13, 2010 Let her leave a voicemail message. If it's something important she will do that. Keep NC! Remember NC is not to win the other person back, it's for you to heal without the constant reminder. By healing you 'reempower' yourself.
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