SithLord Posted October 13, 2010 Posted October 13, 2010 I post couple times, after 3 years of being together, my ex and I went our ways. I left it and only came back bc of ego since she now moved on with an ex boyfriend and sleeping with him, bc wants me in her and feels we can become great friends. I told her today I can't be friends bc I'm not ready, she goes I'll always be here...I'm gonna disappear, I've been cordial. I don't want her bak but the selfishness of human nature kicks in. She needs to miss me lol, any thoughts.
Ajax Posted October 13, 2010 Posted October 13, 2010 My thoughts are that only a Sith deals in absolutes. However, you have no obligation to be friends with her. If it bugs you then do what you said you'd do and disappear. No shame in that.
Lemontang Posted October 13, 2010 Posted October 13, 2010 Well she ain't going to miss you if your hanging around. Nothing worse than a fart that lingers. Turn the fan on and disperse. But seriously do what feels right if you think you can be friends, but realise that's not going to do anything but stroke 'her' ego. I still think you should go NC and move on with your life. You already had, no point looking back now. Your clearly uncomfortable with her having moved on with an ex. But like my mum always said you should always give your old toys away to the less fortunate.
skydiveaddict Posted October 14, 2010 Posted October 14, 2010 any thoughts. Yes. Stay out of her life and tell her to stay out of yours
Author SithLord Posted October 14, 2010 Author Posted October 14, 2010 yeah every second she gets she wants to throw the new guy in my face. she got upset with me bc i refuse to help her with iphone question to help him out. im done and shes cut off...she getting caught up in her own emotions doing that...it just made me trip out after 3 years, we split, she sleeps with her ex the next month..amazing lol...dude is a rebound.
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