someday Posted October 13, 2010 Posted October 13, 2010 My H was right there, I didn’t even know OM was there. I saw him said “Hi, OM, how are you feeling?” he say’s “Hi, baby girl, I’m feeling old.” to me right in front of my H, I talked to him a bit and then walked way. My H and OM proceed to talk to each other. I heard them talking (complaining?) about their respective wives……. This is one strange situation.
2sure Posted October 13, 2010 Posted October 13, 2010 If I am correct regarding your other posts... You are both married and know each other's spouses. You do not talk to OM except once in awhile on the phone although you have known him for years. You knew him before he was married but never dated or had sex. You have never had a physical affair with him and neither of you have ever discussed having one. You only recently found out where he lives. You suspect your spouses suspect something because you arent sure they like each other, but your H apparently has no problem discussing you with OM , nor OM discussin his wife with your H. Are you sure he is OM and not simply someone you like alot? Does he think he is your OM?
Author someday Posted October 13, 2010 Author Posted October 13, 2010 Yes, you are correct enough about everything- a few details are off but I'm going to leave it at that. No, I guess he's not OM, I was just calling in 'my friend' on this site but that seemed to get confusing. Perhaps, you are suggesting that I shouldn't post here? If that's the case then I have no place to express this in my real life. There is no one that I talk to about this. My H hates my friend, my friends W hates me....but everyone just gets along....
2sure Posted October 13, 2010 Posted October 13, 2010 No, of course I am not suggesting that you stop posting. You clearly have an issue with this. I am just suggesting other ways to look at it...thats what we are all here for right?
Author someday Posted October 13, 2010 Author Posted October 13, 2010 Thank you, yes I do have issue with this....it's not like I seek his company out...and yet when we talk it messes me up inside for a while.
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