YoungLove92 Posted October 13, 2010 Posted October 13, 2010 Hello, so first this is my first post so kinda new to all this but i wanted to kno what peoples opinion about this would be. so ive met a guy on line, we've been talking for over a month now, we get along great not met in person yet (plan to next weekend) but hes 13 years older than me... im not sure how to tell my friends or family about this because im not very sure how they would react (im only 18). I rly love talknig to him and he makes me super happy but he wants things to move way faster than i do. and maybe this is part of my immaturity but as much as i love talknig to him and everything idk if i have the same physical attration to him as he does me. I truely want things to work for us and i am trying to move past the age difference and the looks but im having some trouble. can anyone help me?!
Don Ho Posted October 13, 2010 Posted October 13, 2010 At your age, the age difference is huge. You're basically still a girl, he is a 31 year old man. If you were 30 it wouldn't be such an issue, but it still could be one. Your friends and parents are going to look at him as a pervert moving on an 18 year old. Advice? Find a guy around your age. I think he's probably more attracted to you and thinking sex with an 18 year old would be hot. You have to ask what's wrong with him and why he's not dating women over 25. You need to think about bailing out.
Yvette_Sveden Posted October 13, 2010 Posted October 13, 2010 My "YoungLove," I don't like where this is headed at all. I strongly suggest you avoid him at all costs. You need to seek the attention of men your own age or those who are just a few years older. Why can't you attract men like those. You wouldn't be busy talking to this 31 year old man over the internet. The word predator sends off warnings in my head, and you should hear those sirens, too, sweetie. The fact that you came onto this forum to seek the opinion of others is your way of seeking help because you know in your heart of hearts, and in your mind of minds, that this is an idea that you don't want to regret having. I think the fact that he's looking for someone that young sounds like there's something wrong with him. And I don't want you to find out what that thing is. Yvette from Sweden
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