Billie's ex has a new BF

[Billie The Puppet]

I like LS too, obviously like most dumpees I didn't get the outcome I wanted.

 

There is a bad side though, we have all been typing my ex, my ex, my ex. There has been too much emphasis on them not enough on our selves. Of course there are blows like when I started this thread. Honestly I shouldn't be coming here any more because it triggers the thoughts.

 

I too loved someone so cold and self centered. I no longer have hope. I don't wish her the best either. We can't hope their new relationships fail it will bring us no justice.

 

I can't wait til I start typing my gf, my fiancé, my wife. Sure they can all go south too like any relationship can but I now know what to do. The hardest part is baiting but there are plenty of fish in the sea.

[Username37]

High School-game-playing-immature-complex of sorts

 

I blame chick flicks and love songs.

 

my ex is a girl then. she thinks shes so mature when in reality she isnt.i also blame those goddamn fashion teen magazines they read.

[Billie The Puppet]

I blame myself, I know it is harsh but I did everything for that girl (use to be a woman) She claimed she wanted to be independent which makes sense since I did everything for her.

 

I got her her job in a place with nearly all male staff but I gave her my full trust she tells me not to worry she doesn't look for relationships (REDFLAG) while she is actively in one. (I guess she wasn't actively in one with me then). She leaves me for a coworker because he was giving her more attention I guess. She is the type of girl that actually wants to be codependent and see her BF everyday.

 

I have mixed feelings at this point. I miss the relationship still, I miss her family more though and I miss the things we did. However I think there is a line developing between miss and love now.

 

A part of me now believes because I was comfortable I want to revert back, now I have to go back into change and being uncomfortable.

 

If the 3 relationship theory applies I have 1 more to cycle through as far as serious relationships go and she is on the 3rd. (She was my first serious relationship)