andelemamy Posted October 12, 2010 Posted October 12, 2010 In a weird situation at the moment almost like a relationship limbo and wanted to hear some of your thoughts. Been dating my gf for 3 years now and I really do love her. Recently she has asked for us to have a not so serious relationship (she wants more independence). I feel like she wants her and cake and eat it too. When we do go out on dates or hang out with a group of friends we always have a good time (plus the sex is amazing). I guess I am still in the same mindset of us being in a serious relationship while it seems she is moving on with her life. This past weekend we went out on a date and had a great time and a few days later I offered to take her out again and she kinda flipped out. she called later and apologized (she has been stressed with work)... I told her I needed a week away from her and its been a week now. I am seriously debating on continuing this relationship on her terms, and I don't think I am going to call her for even longer. Obviously there is a lot more to my story but I don't want to bore everyone here. I was just wondering if any of you have been in this situation before or what your thoughts are. thx
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