amythan Posted October 12, 2010 Posted October 12, 2010 Hi, We were together for several months. He was a coworker and we were not even living in the same town. He pursued me full force and i thought he was really interested. He said we should keep it casual and i was a fool accepting this deal thinking that he would change his mind. But we were so attracted to each other that it was almost impossible to stop it. I have nothing bad to say about him. I was stupid and i felt for him very badly. He is always supportive and caring but the fact he does not love me made me feel like a hooker and i started to distance myself from him. I never told him about my feelings but i guess he understood the hint and he is now acting just friendly, not trying to sleep with me again. I am going to get an important surgery next week and in weak impulse i told him. He was all caring but .. it is just wrong. It hurts me to be friendly with him and at the same time i do not want to lose him. I do not also want him to think i am an idiot. How can i deal with this ? I do not want to explain him my feelings and stop contacting him or replying seems so rude but this situation is driving me crazy. Thanks for your comments.
hellhathnofury Posted October 12, 2010 Posted October 12, 2010 I cannot do this anymore Then don't. All behaviour is a choice. Who's making you do this?
mickleb Posted October 12, 2010 Posted October 12, 2010 You could try being completely honest with him. What have you got to lose? x
John018 Posted October 29, 2010 Posted October 29, 2010 Hi, How can i deal with this ? I do not want to explain him my feelings and stop contacting him or replying seems so rude but this situation is driving me crazy. Thanks for your comments. He was never interested in LTR with you. Sorry to be blunt but that's they way it seems. Good luck.
WTRanger Posted October 29, 2010 Posted October 29, 2010 You could try being completely honest with him. What have you got to lose? x I approve of this 10,000% For what it's worth, men do not understand hints. We get straight up communication.
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