Glassshoes Posted October 11, 2010 Posted October 11, 2010 I have been seeing this guy for about a month now. The last time we were together everything was great and we left each other on good terms. However, this past week he has blown me off or forgot about our plans 4 times. In normal circumstances i would understand that hes just not interested in me anymore but when he blows me off he will still address me as babe. Also, i have payed $70 for him to ride a party bus with me and my friends next weekend. He hardly replies to texts and never answers calls (he never answered calls while we were still seeing each other). I'm afraid i will end up out 70 bucks and dateless this weekend:( I'm going crazy here. Should I continue to try to keep some type of a relationship with him? Give him space? Tell him how hes making me feel? Has he just moved on? arhhhhhhhg HELP ME OUT
ComeUndone Posted October 11, 2010 Posted October 11, 2010 Why don't you just ask him if he is still coming next weekend as planned? If he says yes but you are still leery, establish a plan B. Maybe ask one of your trusted guy friends or a female friend who you can explain to some of what is going on to so they know that it's still a little up in the air. This way they know in advance the invite is contingent on what happens with this guy.
Sabali Posted October 11, 2010 Posted October 11, 2010 Within a month's time, this guy has "forgotten" or blown you off 4 times? That's a blow off or lapse in memory averaging about once per week? And the only thing that is throwing you off the not interested trail is that he stills addresses you as "babe." You are being thrown off a very clear trail by a word? A simple term of endearment? In that case, my 70 year-old neighbor may be interested in me because she calls me "honey" all of the time. There is no confusion here. There is nothing to throw anyone off the trail here. Every situation posted on the first page of this forum is ambiguous except for this one. I would lose this guys number. He isn't interested in you. I am sure you won't have trouble finding someone else who actually is.
Imajerk17 Posted October 12, 2010 Posted October 12, 2010 (edited) Sorry, but this doesn't look good. He's probably onto a "hotter" prospect. If you really need to hear it from him, I'd recommend sending him a text saying that you haven't heard from him a while, and is he still coming with you this weekend, and that you paid for your ticket. Hopefully he has the class to give you a straight answer. Edited October 12, 2010 by Imajerk17
D-Lish Posted October 12, 2010 Posted October 12, 2010 Come to terms that he's not interested "enough". It's pretty easy to address someone as "babe", but it's pretty meaningless considering his actions. Done...next.
that girl Posted October 12, 2010 Posted October 12, 2010 Spending money and calling you babe mean nothing. Blwoing you off 4 times in a month is a lot and says everything about his lack of interest in you.
Ruby Slippers Posted October 12, 2010 Posted October 12, 2010 Dump the chump, and take a friend with you on the party bus.
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