terminalmoraine Posted October 11, 2010 Posted October 11, 2010 Details I am 19 and he is 22 We met on holiday and dated for nine months (we live two hours apart) He broke up with me during my exams in May stating he didn't feel in love with me and I deserved someone who makes me truly happy, I was devastated We both maintained NC strictly since the split, nobody said they were going to do it, just happened that way Last week after 5 months a got a text "Hey xx" from him, replied and exchanged about 30 texts in total over the week, finally he showed his true colours he wanted to meet up for no strings sex he actually said he "wished we could". When we split I would have done anything for that sort of opportunity. I turned him down saying it would bring back the past to which he relied "Ha it would so xx" So guess just wanted to post and say if I'm still on his mind after that amount of time maybe we could have salvaged what we had at the time but now my feelings have changed since the months have past and I see him for who he really is, a user! So to all dumpees out there, yes a dumper will miss you eventually if you treated them well and they realise that the grass isn't always greener, my ex thinks he can have his cake and eat it too, but now I am strong and I'm moving on. I have learnt to always trust my instincts from now on I call that Sweet Success
Billie The Puppet Posted October 11, 2010 Posted October 11, 2010 You didn't turn down a second chance, you turned down a booty call/ and pig. I still very well do want a second chance: I don't want my ex back for sex, in fact the sex is what I miss the least of all. Though now that I think about it perhaps we are not sexually compatible which may have caused the split seeing as I want to be with her forever.
Author terminalmoraine Posted October 11, 2010 Author Posted October 11, 2010 Sex was a big part of the relationship between us so for him to even contemplate starting that up he must have had his doubts, he can get plenty elsewhere Not a convential second chance such as him saying he loved me and that hes sorry he left, but that was never going to happen hes just not that sort of guy and your right I dont want to be no booty call thats why I turned him down I really hope you get your second chance
lizzy22w Posted October 12, 2010 Posted October 12, 2010 Details I am 19 and he is 22 We met on holiday and dated for nine months (we live two hours apart) He broke up with me during my exams in May stating he didn't feel in love with me and I deserved someone who makes me truly happy, I was devastated We both maintained NC strictly since the split, nobody said they were going to do it, just happened that way Last week after 5 months a got a text "Hey xx" from him, replied and exchanged about 30 texts in total over the week, finally he showed his true colours he wanted to meet up for no strings sex he actually said he "wished we could". When we split I would have done anything for that sort of opportunity. I turned him down saying it would bring back the past to which he relied "Ha it would so xx" So guess just wanted to post and say if I'm still on his mind after that amount of time maybe we could have salvaged what we had at the time but now my feelings have changed since the months have past and I see him for who he really is, a user! So to all dumpees out there, yes a dumper will miss you eventually if you treated them well and they realise that the grass isn't always greener, my ex thinks he can have his cake and eat it too, but now I am strong and I'm moving on. I have learnt to always trust my instincts from now on I call that Sweet Success Thank you so much for posting this, because I have heard the "I wish we could help each other out that way" speech too. I guess I was just too hopeful to see his true colors. THANK YOU SO MUCH!
andrew-bkk Posted October 12, 2010 Posted October 12, 2010 So to all dumpees out there, yes a dumper will miss you eventually if you treated them well and they realise that the grass isn't always greener, my ex thinks he can have his cake and eat it too, but now I am strong and I'm moving on. I have learnt to always trust my instincts from now on I call that Sweet Success That's a nice post and a great success story!
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