Ms_Sweetness Posted October 11, 2010 Posted October 11, 2010 Ok, so I met a new guy and we've been going out for about 2 months now. I usually see each other about 2-3 times per week. Last weekend I spend Fri-Sun at his house. We went to movies, a concert, and several fun spots. He even cooked breakfast and dinner for me. On Sunday evening when I told him I was going home, he didn't want me to leave. Both of us have crzy schedules, he's an engineer and I'm a counselor at a school so seeing each other this much takes alot of effort. He seems to really be into me especially since he always wants to spend so much time together, but I still feel unsure about what he wants from me. I feel like I always get to this point with guys and never know whats next and usually it just fizzles out. My question I guess is how do I keep this guy? I really like him and I don't want to push him away. But I've been cheated on so many times I don't think I know how to keep a man. Sounds crazy but tht's how i'm feeling.
ConflictedGuy27 Posted October 11, 2010 Posted October 11, 2010 as cliche as this is about to sound, it is still the correct answer: communication. get some understanding regarding where you two would like your relationship to go & if it's what you want, go for it. conversely, if what you discuss isn't what you want, then let him know that and if you two either can't, or don't want to, make the adjustments then move on to someone else. you're at a cross road it seems. communicate and get some clarity; you'll feel better after you do.
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