Broke up three weeks ago...how do I stop thinking about him?

[NaughtyBlondie69]

My boyfriend and i broke up about 3 weeks ago but all i ever think about is him. How do i stop thinking about him so much?

[Curt]

Fact is Blondie,

 

Time heals all wounds. It's a cliche, but is also nonetheless true. Find some things to do, get involved in social activities. Keep your heart open, stay happy and positive. and in due time, other people will come into the picture and fall for you as your ex did in the past.

 

All the pain passes. You will still remember him, but you will not find yourself consumed by thoughts of him.

 

Chin up hunn.

 

Curt

[Mollyanna]

My boyfriend and I broke up 2 weeks ago. I still think of him all the time as well and really really have to fight urges to call him or to stop by his house. We still talk as friends every couple of days - which makes it worse.

 

What i noticed last night however was this.... I was working on a project for work which was fairly complicated but I enjoyed it. I worked on it all evening. And I soon realized that I hadn't thought of my ex for over 3 hours!!! That was the longest ever.

 

So my advice to you is this - get yourself heavily involved in something - whether it be exercise, work, arts and crafts, writing, reading. Totally immerse yourself in it. throw your whole mind into it. The more complicated and time consuing the better. I think I am going to take up some sort of art like pottery or something that I enjoy so I can have a good time by myself and not even realize I am missing him.