newyear36 Posted October 11, 2010 Posted October 11, 2010 i have been married for 9 years last month. my wife and i were madly in love in the beginning. things changed slowly ove rthe years, some changes were expected and others, had me scared. i have been in and out of work over the years, but i have had a job every year she and i have been together. i have always loved her and still do.we have been fighting off and on since feb this year. she feels like the marriage isn't worth fighting for and that she loves me, but not in love with me. i can see how that can happen to a couple. now we are at a point where she says she wants out, but doesn't seem to be making any plans to do so. in the mean time i'm trying to reconcile and change the way we have approached each other, but at some moments i feel like we far far away even tho we are in the same house. i have done my share of complaining, being mad etc. but now i'm starting to see that for as much as i love her, our time is drawing to a close. i think its hard for me to let go, only because i have invested my complete heart into her and i was settled with her. we are great friends, but the private side of us isn't there. i no longer wish to fight with her, i just want to love her and feel that in return. i'm facing the possibility of breaking my family up and that does bother me, but i do start to think how my life would be if i was single. so i'm at a cross road, i want to save this, but i don't if she isn't a hundred percent with me. i'm still trying to figure out my true feelings, so any input is greatly appreciated.
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