Guardian299 Posted October 11, 2010 Share Posted October 11, 2010 Well my boyfriend is going away this weekend with mates to see a frind who went away to uni. This person and some he is going up with are bad influences on him as all they do is drink and smoke (drugs). This is rubbing off on my boyfriend and he now cant go out with friends to dink without getting completely drunk to the point the night has blanks. So 3 guesses to what this weekend will be like and he said just for this weekend he will smoke. Dont get me wrong there is noting wrong with him seeing and drinking with friends but it bothers me the extent it allways gets too, and he is the type of person who without alcohol will do stupid dares etc, last thurs he was out and was nearly arrested for playing around with a trolly while giving me drunk calls (only positive from that was at least he was thinking about me). Because i know how bad it has been with these friends before e.g. waking up in a random house and not knowing where or at a random drug dealers house, i cant get the worst possible scenarios out of my head. His mates dont know we are together yet and im worried he will get egged on to dares etc including girls, even if the friends knew about me it wouldnt make a difference as they would still encourage him as the others are cheating with another friends girlfriend! Most would advise to talk to him, but since we got back together (4 months ago) he is pushing this "im an adult so can do what i want, you cant dictate" attitude so there is no compromise and im left with my thoughts. He is also passive agressive so it just seems like a personal attack if i try and talk to him, and his excuse is always "it was a laugh" like thats a pass and an excuse to do what the hell he likes. I dont know what to do really, i prob sound crazy any advise? Link to post Share on other sites
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